TheNothingFairy

Heyo this place seems fun

My friends were very accepting and cool about it when I came out to them. My parents not so much. But they are getting better

I'll try to keep this short.  When I first "told" them (I was outed and then forced to come out), they weren't accepting. Even though they had a lot of time beforehand to research the aro/ace "label", they didn't. So they had no idea what it meant. They had told me that I'm "too young" and "too immature" and I wouldn't know and stuff like that.  

The worst reaction that I ever got (from my parents, after they forced me to come out) was definitely this: "It makes us sad that you think that you'll never experience love."   

They are trying to get better but at the same time I don't trust them. 

17 hours ago, roboticanary said:

@TheNothingFairy 

I hope you are aware of this but just to make it clear to you. This is a small site. If you point this site out to your Councillor and they look around here they could quite easily match you to your profile based on the fact they know you were looking to give aro resources to them. From that they could find any other online presence you have with that name. If you are ok with that fine but I think its fair to bring up to people that there is that consequence.

1 hour ago, Storm_leopardcat said:

Oh, sheesh, I am so sorry, I did not realise that her account could be traced back to her!

Be careful, @TheNothingFairy!

26 minutes ago, roboticanary said:

No worries.

To be honest I keep forgetting that sort of thing. Its only because that therapist would know she had been collecting aro resources for her. Maybe also that im being a bit paranoid but oh well

Thank you guys, I didn't use this website as a resource for reasons similar to these, and thank you again. I will be careful, and I hope you all have a great day! 

Again, thanks you guys so much, I am so grateful for you guys :)

I would just like to thank everyone! I really appreciate the help!! :D

(Not that anyone asked but I have sent her the document and I am continuing to update it) :) 

Hello! I just wanted to ask if anyone had any links or good websites to check out for information on Aromanticism (and/or) Asexuality!  It has come to my attention that my school's counselor didn't even know what either of these terms meant, and she has expressed that she would like to know more. :)    I just want to make a list of websites for her!   

( I also really want this google doc to be able to be helpful for anyone! Anyone who want's to understand, figure stuff out, and share information!) 

I can post the link of the google doc if anyone wants to use it, and I hope that you guys can help! 

Have a great day everyone! 

Ayo what's up fellow children teens?  :)   

I tried to come out, and "it" was rejected, so yeah! I can relate! I'm not technically "out" but I really don't care anymore. I don't want to have to ide this part of me so I'm not going to. They can b*tch about it all they want but in the end it doesn't affect them 

Just a place!   Anyone got any good aroace memes? Any good aroace wallpapers? Artwork that looks cool? Post it in here :)

Okay, so their not really aromantic, but more asexual, but I think that it should be fine if I post them here! :)            

Spencer Reid (from Criminal Minds):    Biromantic Asexual

Newt Scamander (from Fantastic Beasts and Where To Find Them): (okay, I originally head cannoned him as aroace, but then he got a LOVE INTEREST IM STILL MAD AT THEM FOR THAT) so now I just head canon him as asexual 

On 5/9/2022 at 11:37 AM, pulchritudinous_toast said:

Lmao I'll literally headcanon all my favourite characters as aro unless... I guess "proven wrong" within the canon media. Actually no, even if proven wrong I will still keep my precious headcanons. No one can stop me I have the power. 

YASSSSSSSSSSSSS WE ARE IN THE SAME BOAT MY FRIEND

   Okay, so I am aroace, but I still seem to like fictional characters in some ways. It's like an obsession, and I don't know if that means anything or if it's normal for that to happen. It's like, I don't want to date them, and I feel no sexual or romantic attraction to them, but my fictional "crushes" (I use this word loosely because that's what my parents tell me the obsessions are), or the amount I "love" my fictional "crushes" is literally the most romantic I've ever felt towards anyone. Is that like, normal? Also, is it then a crush? I always get so confused whenever my parents tease me about having a crush on a fictional character, but I really don't think that it's a "real crush".

I don't know, I just had to get this off my chest, and please feel free to add or talk/rant about characters that you like.   :)   

Thank you for reading and have a great day everyone! 

Hey! Uh, I'm still figuring it out, but I've never had a crush, I have absolutely no interest in dating, and I don't think that I have ever experienced romantic attraction ever. I also get annoyed and irritated for no reason it seems whenever characters find "their true love", it's weird. I just don't understand it.