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RedNeko

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  1. 13 hours ago, NewHamsterdam said:

    I was so confused; it seemed like the perfect solution to me. It wasn't until several months later that, looking back, I realized she wanted a boyfriend, in spite of all the trouble one might cause.

    If you want an idea that isn't trying to persuade all your friends to not have boyfriends, you could get a whiteboard so you can write notices to each other including if you're expecting someone round. It can be more convenient that trying to figure out if you've told everyone.

    2 hours ago, Simowl said:

    Does anyone else feel bad hanging out with their friends' crushes? A lot of people seem to get worried that people are "stealing" their crush if someone else is talking to them.. And I know my friend's got a crush on this guy so it almost feels like I can't talk to him much (especially when she's around).. I dunno, it's usually in the back of my mind when I'm talking to someone my friend has a crush on. Obviously I know I just want to be friends but so many people don't see that..

    I think that people tend to grow out of this way of thinking as they get older. But I'm not sure because I never talk to any of my friends about this stuff these days and they don't bring it up either. After all, the crush is their own person and not a thing to fight over.

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  2. I ALWAYS ASSUME THAT PEOPLE ARE USING 'GUY' IN A GENDER-NEUTRAL WAY, BUT THEN THEY SAY "GUYS... AND GIRLS" WHICH REMINDS ME THAT OTHER PEOPLE DON'T.

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