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  1. Atypique

    I'm panicking because friend A asked me how I'd react if friend B asked me out and insisted a lot and now I'm scared that friend A actually knows something and wanted to test me and that friend B actually likes me whereas they already know I'm aro and that I get scared of people liking me

    1. the more the merrier

      the more the merrier

      Hi! How would you feel about asking Friend A something like this? "Please may I ask - Why are you asking me this? I realise this may be playfully meant from you, yet I'm feeling uncomfortable about these questions and the uncertainty of not knowing why you're asking is an aspect I'm finding difficult at present."

      Hopefully it will become clearer for all three of you - Good friends may choose to honour support, rather than tests (not including cases where everyone is happy with the latter).

      They also might not intend this as a test. Hinting about interest, or possible partnerships, can be enjoyable for allos and for others (which perhaps relates to the perception of gossip being an exciting thing) - hopefully they will come to understand more about how this feels to you here and respect your boundaries even more in future. :arocapapo:

    2. Atypique

      Atypique

      Thank you for your answer... I do think that this is just something about gossip, because I do have a really close relationship with friend A, but I can't keep myself from panicking

    3. the more the merrier

      the more the merrier

      Yes, that's so understandable! Thank you so much for sharing this with us here, rather than facing your thoughts alone... I'm so happy to hear about this closeness, Atypique!

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