MaxIsCosmic

On 7/18/2021 at 1:55 PM, roboticanary said:

You can't make old friends

 

I love Dolly Parton so much this is a great song.

Not me but my boyfriend and I are on the aro spectrum and he is on track to graduate high school with an associate degree and he is planning on going into the medical sciences field with a full ride scholarship.

I didn’t get a pic of it but Being aromantic was mentioned in my local news paper a while back

I relate a lot to looking glass from the watchmen show, Peter Neurev from Juno steel, and John from the Magnus Archives 

23 hours ago, Lovebird said:

Failed all of the above lmao.

Welcome to the Smiley face on paper club!

6 hours ago, Neon said:

You can have a sliver star

People missing 2 get a green star

People missing 3 get a blue star

People missing 4 get a red star

Everyone else just gets a smiley face drawn on the paper.

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I’m Demi-ro so looks like I’m getting a smiley face drawn on paper 

3 hours ago, Ekaterina said:

Can't say much for sure about Little Women, I haven't even actually read it or watched film adaptations, but I heard something about the author being pressured/forced to pair up last minute one of her heroines who wasn't supposed to be paired. Maybe it's that plotline you are speaking about. 

Edit: in fact it's being mentioned on this very forum just today: 

 

Got to read it for school and look into the history of it and that is what happened the author based the Jo character off herself and she never got married nor wanted a husband the publishers wanted the book to be more socially acceptable and so they made her add in the character. (This is not confirmed but i read somewhere she purposely made him twice her age and unattractive so she could get back at the publishers by not giving them “Prince Charming”)

I’m sorry you feel that way while I’m Demi romantic and can’t help too much maybe you could consider a queer platonic relationship or committed friendship?

Oh no I’m going to be eating a lot of cheeses apparently 

the best person wins a mandatory stay at a middle school for a year. 

On 12/15/2023 at 3:36 PM, smac n cheese said:

False, I just got out (we can't have our phones at school)

Oops I forgot to say:

Tpbm has siblings?

True! Two younger siblings 

tpbm has a cat(s)

Paths 

“just draw money or a croissant whenever”

Sounds like an amazing thing for my trash can to have.

next person gets a TV that only plays American politics at full volume. 

On 11/27/2023 at 10:33 PM, MaxIsCosmic said:

I’m reading “bastard out of Carolina” by Dorthy Allison it’s southern gothic and really good so far.

Update; it is so sad I Finished it and cried. 

I can only relate to parts of this being a Demi-ro with different life experiences but I understand the “something is not right”. This whole essay is beautifully written and conveys so much emotion in your words it makes me feel emotions I went through of not feeling normal and the pang in my heart that came with that. All in all this is an amazing piece and I’m so glad you found a community here with everyone including myself. 

Money probably I just want top surgery lol and I think a genie would twist it in some way 

money or being able to speak 100 languages of your choice 

Bag pipes 

A white ring on the middle finger is an aro symbol 

Pin

I’m reading “bastard out of Carolina” by Dorthy Allison it’s southern gothic and really good so far.

Welcome to the Demi-aro gang!

Going to give it to my little brother and see how he responds 

the next person wins a security guard who is actually just a clown in disguise 

5 hours ago, Synthetic Adrenaline said:

You can sell him at Lord Hellnope's Pet Emporium :D

Next person wins 1 grey sock

If it’s my size that’s perfect I lost one 

the next person gets one 14 inch index fingernail from your least favorite relative 

49 minutes ago, hemogoblin said:

That's sexual harassment, and since you're minors, it's actually child sexual abuse. That is 100% something you can and should report. I'm sorry your school environment is so unsafe.

That’s helpful to hear that at least I’m not overthinking things, sometimes I feel like I’m making a big deal over nothing and that I sound like a whiny teenager I’m going to see what options I have considering one of the teachers is our assistant principal who manages reports. 

So something I have thought about a little bit over the past few days is how often I get asked how it feels to feel romantic attraction by other people on the aro community that don’t experience romantic attraction or are unsure about their identity. So I think I should say this: romance will not feel the same for any two people, romance like gender is a very individual experience, sadly it is unlikely asking people how it feels to be in love (romantically) will tell someone enough to determine if they are aromantic or not. Your identity is your own and it is ok if you don’t understand it yet. (Also I should say I am not frustrated at all about these questions I just figure this might be helpful for some people.)