aro_elise

i think i have a squish on a guy in my class.  i noticed him last year but we didn't really talk until now.

oh right, it's pride month.  no parades, but still celebrating ?

i'm hooking up/hanging out with this guy and he doesn't seem romantically attracted to me or do anything which makes me uncomfortable.  that's all, just yay.

i'm a bride for halloween (my mom's dress) and my best friend said i looked beautiful and she would marry me ? i think next time i see her in person i'm going to ask her to friend-marry me (unofficial)

i was sick so i got tested for covid and it was negative, yay.  whatever sickness it was was terrible (not the flu, i always get the shot) but i'm mostly recovered.  ?

after my coworker talked about being gay, i felt comfortable talking about being aro and she seemed to accept it, yay.  i haven't mentioned it to any other coworkers, but to a few, when it's come up, i've said i'm not getting married (or having kids), and i believe i've used one of those evasive phrases like "i'm not a relationship person" ?

my friend was talking about this guy she hooked up with, said she wanted him to like her romantically even though she didn't want to date him??  said she knew i wouldn't understand (she knows i'm aro) and wishes she could be like me.

told another coworker i'm aro haha we were talking about relationships and stuff, i said i don't date and there's "not a chance" i'll get married, and she wanted to know why.  she responded positively, noting that i get "the good parts of a relationship" ie sex, lol ok i'll take it

i saw a movie from 1955 where this girl legit said the words "you just haven't met the right one" to her sister, and i'm like, oh heck, people have been saying that for a long time, eh?

i just took a survey for a-spec people and a question was 'do you have a community, either online or in person, that you feel loves, respects, and understands you?' and i immediately thought of you guys and answered 'yes' so thanks ?

my latest real-life aro headcanon: tennis player thanasi kokkinakis ?

casually came out to a coworker today when she was talking about being ace

i just went out with some new friends (some from bumble bff) and someone asked everyone like how important sex was to us in a relationship and i said, well i don't date, and after a couple follow-up questions, one girl asked "are you ace?" and i said "aro" and she understood.  i was like, cool.  i really liked her, i think we're going to hang out again.