Omg thank you so much for this I can't really relate to the signs you may be aro apart from me not having romantic attraction.
- I love the theory of romance
- I never doubted that the love was fake
-in theory I would love to be married and find my soulmate because my parents are proof how great love can be as I see them making each other happy everyday
-I want kids but don't want them growing up with a single parent so I won't be having them
-I wanted love so bad I convinced I was in love and crushes it was my friends who realised first and told me all of them were fake (I'm a terrible actor)
- I come out as asexual exclusively so I don't seem like a "special snowflake" with too many labels and if they question it more I explain the concept of aromantism
lol I am probably the worst aro