I was looking up the definition of an aromate which is a non-romantic and non-sexual relationship and was wondering if there's a word for a non-romantic but sexual relationship basically everything the same but instead of non-sexual it could be sexual to. I heard of the term friends with benefits (fwb) but I feel like an aromate relationship is stronger than a fwb relationship.
Also since I'm already asking a question what would i call myself in the aro spectrum throughout my life i only had one crush but at the same time i don't know if i was just excited since it my first relationship, therefore, i could have just been excited and didnt like him idk. I have been in relationships and ended every one except with my first bf, i even dated a guy for a month and had no feelings for him in a romantic way and i kinda dreaded hanging out with him because of the romance but im only 17 so i dont know. I like to say gray aromantic because maybe one day i will develop romantic feelings for someone and im still young and dont even know myself yet. What could i call myself i feel like i'm a gray aromantic but for the most part aromantic??
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