karnzter

This one's another good aro/apothiro/antiro song

A great introvert/loner/recluse's anthem.

One more. Heating it again made me realize it's an apothiromantic/antiromantic song. NIKI's Warpaint

• Selena Gomez's Same Old Love
• Joji's Test Drive and No Fun
• Lady Gaga's Alejandro
• Beyoncé's Sorry
• Bryan Adams' Love Is Hell
• Puddle of Mudd's She Hates Me
• AlunaGeorge's Attracting Flies

I'd rather hopefully win the current record-breaking lottery jackpot and use the winnings to:

• pay all my debts to my parents
• pay-off all of my family's loans and debts
• get my mother her dream car
• purchase the vacant lot next to our house
• renovate/remodel/repair the current house and expand and paint it using the purchased lot
• make an office for the family business
• invest in a food-based franchise(s)
• donate to our charities of choice
• get back to that weight-loss program that I abruptly stopped more than 4 years ago
• get a gym and yoga membership
• go back to therapy
• have me and everyone in my family get a general check-up
• fix and upgrade my grandparents' house (as promised to my late grandfather)
• have a new PC build that's up-to-date with the current hardwares in the market
• travel to Japan, Singapore, South Korea, Norway, Italy, France, Canada and Hong Kong as a family or alone
• watch my/our very first live Singapore Grand Prix (even better if it's in the Paddock Club)
• and split the remaining money equally with my family and put it in our respective savings

than get married.

New discoveries/realizations! I know I said the last time that it'll be the last, but the songs/memories/realizations keep on coming.

• The Lonely Island's Hugs (feat. Pharrell Williams)
• TLC's No Scrubs and Dear Lie

Okay. Three last songs. Assuming these can be aro (and ace)-themed based on the lyrics:

• Joji's Slow Dancing In the Dark
• Tina Turner's What's Love Got to Do With It?
• Good Charlotte's I Don't Wanna Be In Love (Dance Floor Anthem)

23 hours ago, Holmbo said:

@karnzter many of your suggestions seems plays more like breakup songs to me than aromantic. Someone who have been in romantic love but their partner didn't treat them right. Maybe my mind interprets it different. 

What you said is true. I went through a catfish/loss of trust/trauma/privacy-invasion/heartbreak years ago that triggered my repulsion, cynicism, anger and judgement against romance. Post Malone's Over Now is so harsh and angry it speaks to me.

Anything with a 'heartbreak-ish' theme speaks romance repulsion in my mind. It's like telling others that there's no such thing as a perfect romance/relationship/love, it's not a severe necessity/importance, counts as a word/tale of caution/warning and everything is just an unwanted public scandal waiting to happen.

Those songs I've listed are the kind that makes me sing out loud to shut out the amatonormativity and societal/media/social/cultural influence of romance all around me.

More new songs, and transferring a few of the new ones from the last list to keep it up-to-date

• Mariah Carey's Obsessed
• The Saturdays' Keep Her, Lies, Chasing Lights, Fall, Forever Is Over, Ego, Wordshaker and Not Good Enough
• Calvin Harris' Sweet Nothing (feat. Florence Welch)
• My Chemical Romance's I Don't Love You
• Example's I Don't Want To
• Justin Timberlake's Cry Me a River
• Timbaland's Apologize (feat. OneRepublic)
• Omarion's Ice Box
• Gabriella Cilmi's Sweet About Me
• Avril Lavigne's Losing Grip, Complicated, Anything But Ordinary and Don't Tell Me
• Simple Plan's Shut Up! (another big FU to amatonormativity anthem)
• Carly Simon's You're So Vain
• Janet Jackson's Son of a Gun (I Betcha Think This Song Is About You)
• Bon Jovi's It's My Life
• Annie's Chewing Gum and I Know Ur Girlfriend Hates Me
• The Pussycat Dolls' Wait a Minute (feat. Timbaland) and Beep (feat. will.i.am)
• P!nk's Raise Your Glass
• MIKA's Blame It On the Girls
• Terror Jr's Dead Girl Walking
• Snakehips' Days With You (feat. Sinead Harnett)
• Datarock's Not Me
• Radioactive Sago Project's Wasak Na Wasak and Alak Sugal Kape Babae Kabaong (I can't find Tagalog-to-English translations for both, but I find them both a bit of aro/apothiro/antiro songs)
• Mark Morrison's Return of the Mack
• Imogen Heap's Hide and Seek

2 hours ago, Holmbo said:

@karnzter I was only referring to the title. Since I don't speak French and didn't read the translation. 

It's okay. It took me more than 6 or 7 years since I first listened to L'amour to find out that it wasn't a positive song about love at all ?

Since I can't edit-to-add my previous post anymore, here are more song suggestions for the playlist. Edited along the way for more future suggestions:

• Robbie Williams and Nicole Kidman's Something Stupid
• Bielfield's Dance Again (feat. Courtney Act)
• Dua Lipa's IDGAF and New Rules
• Paramore's Misery Business, Ignorance, Crushcrushcrush, That's What You Get and Ain't It Fun
• Adele's Send My Love (To Your New Lover)

@Holmbo The translation made it a romance-repulsed/cynical song for me. Is it because of the 'strange sweet taste of my lovers' skins' part in the end? Or maybe the title? Just curious to know and wonder.

I just consider that part like 'kissing/making out and above-the-belt touchy-feely with a one-time date but never going all the way'.

More suggestions:

• Justin Timberlake's What Goes Around.../ ...Comes Around (Interlude)
• Kelis' Trick Me
• Kaiser Cheifs' Everyday I Love You Less and Less
• La Roux's Bulletproof
• Terror Jr's Heartbreaks
• Taylor Swift's We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together, I Knew You Were Trouble and Bad Blood (both the album and Kendrick Lamar-featured versions)
• Amy Winehouse's Back to Black and Love Is a Losing Game
• Spice Girls' Too Much and Stop
• No Doubt's Ex-Girlfriend
• Honey Pig's Clueless You
• Meghan Trainor's Lips Are Movin'
• My Chemical Romance's I'm Not Okay (I Promise) and It's Not a Fashion Statement It's a Deathwish
• The Ting Tings' Shut Up and Let Me Go
• Cher Lloyd's Superhero

2009 18-year-old life crisis-bearing me is reminiscing again.

More suggestions! Whoo!

• Beyoncé's Me, Myself and I
• Lily Allen's Smile and Knock 'Em Out
• NIKI's Chilly
• Kelly Clarkson's Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) and The Trouble With Love Is
• CeeLo Green's Fuck You
• Ed Sheeran's Don't
• Nessly's Make It Right (feat. Joji)
• Post Malone's I Fall Apart and Over Now (for me, I find the second song's lyrics really dark; so take caution)
• Rich Brian's Glow Like Dat
• Calvin Harris' I'm Not Alone
• Nivea's Laundromat
• Britney Spears' Oops!...I Did It Again

More suggestions

• NIKI's See U Never, Newsflash! and Pools (in my opinion)
• Carla Bruni's L'amour, Notre grand amour est mort and Enjoy the Silence
• Ex Battalion's Hayaan Mo Na Sila (this song can go both ways for both sides, and is a bit 'controversial' since it became viral)
• Charlie Puth's Attention
• Kelly Clarkson's Since U Been Gone, Walk Away and Hole
• Studio Killers' All Men Are Pigs
• Karmin's Crash Your Party (I see this as a big FU to society/media-influenced romance, sex and amatonormativity)
• Alicia Keys' Karma
• Jennifer Lopez's Ain't It Funny Remix (feat. Caddillac Tah and Ja Rule)
• Iggy Azalea's Trouble (feat. Jennifer Hudson)
• The Black Eyed Peas' Don't Lie and Shut Up
• The Pussycat Dolls' I Don't Need A Man
• Robbie Williams' No Regrets
• P!nk's So What
• Keira Knightley's Like a Fool
• Rihanna's Take a Bow
• Cher's Strong Enough

I find Mariya Takeuchi's Plastic Love to also be considered an aro/apothiro song.

Maybe Joji's Yeah Right as well? At least for me, it is.

Hugh Laurie's I Hate a Man Like You is another suggestion.