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    The Genderflux Thread

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    13 minutes ago, Confused Artist said:

    That's similar to how I feel, except I'm on the more feminine side of things. All of the sudden whether you picking out clothes, or whatever else, you just get this feeling that's like hey, I feel more like this today. It's really interesting that one day you can completely one way, and then the other you feel the complete opposite. 

    For my pronouns, I just use they/them. I covers all bases I guess.

    Same, I usually end up selecting clothes that I could wear no matter what I was feeling that day, so I usually lean to dressing more androgynous. And yes I agree, it is very interesting how these things change.

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    The Genderflux Thread

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    1 hour ago, Confused Artist said:

    Now that I think about it though, I might be genderflux. I know I said I wasn't, but I looked into it more, and it kinda fits how I feel. If I was genderflux (and I might be) I would be more on the feminine side of things. Some days I feel feminine, some days I don't, and somedays U feel kind of feminine, but not fully. I am currently thinking about having some people calling me them/they. Any other suggestions? 

    For me, one of the ways I found out I was genderflux was that I knew I wasn't a man. So, "girl" or "woman" must fit me then, right? And it wasn't so much that I completely didn't identify as female, it's just the term didn't fully describe me. There was some extra stuff, experiences, and feelings that were being left out. It mainly came down to, "Well, I'm not a man, so I must be a woman." But, now that I've found this term, its sort of all-encompassing and more flexible than just "female."

    If you feel better with people referring to you with they/them, then that's awesome! Try it out, get a feel for it, and see where things take you.

    (P.S. There's also a term for both genderfluid and genderflux combined called "fluidflux," if you wanted to check that out!)

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    The Genderflux Thread

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    8 hours ago, Confused Artist said:

    I myself am not genderflux, but I read up on it and it sounds pretty cool! I think I might be genderfluid, although I'm not quite sure yet. I actually had to look up the meaning of genderflux, because apparently I'm a clueless idiot lol. Anyway, I would love to hear about your experiences! And maybe you could help me see if I really am genderfluid.

    Oh no you're good! Yeah, I don't blame you, it isn't super well known. Of course, I'd love to share some of my experiences :)

    I defineatly get how hearing others' journeys can help you on your own.

    50 minutes ago, ScarfOfSexualPreference said:

    I'm in the middle of my gender self-discovery, but I think I'm a Demi-girl or something non-binary. For now, I just wear a binder and present a little more non-binary. I'm not 100% sure yet, so I'd love to hear others' experiences :)

    I can defineatly relate!

    I also have been given this amazing piece of advice from someone that I wanted to share in case it may help someone else on their gender self-discovery journey. It was, "If there were absolutely no societal pressures to look a certain way or dress a certain way, what would you look like? What type of clothing would you wear? How would you style your hair? How would you act?"

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    Sirens and aromatics

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    Yeah I think it would really depend on the person and the siren (do sirens come in variations?). Cause what I've interpreted from it is that they lure you in with what you want the most. So technically, if someone was starving and had a hankering for some baked ziti, the siren could sing about baked ziti? 

    Of course, I feel that this isn't the case for most people, and many people would rather want a relationship (or in the case of Odysseus, truth) more than some food. So maybe?

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    The Genderflux Thread

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    Hello everybody!

    I have recently discovered that I am genderflux, and because I haven't seen too much discussion about this identity on the Internet, I decided to make a thread about it so that we can share our experiences and hopefully be able to relate to one another! Feel free to talk about anything, such your story of self-discovery, how your style of dress changes according to how you're feeling that day, how you feel about different pronouns, etc.!

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