Soooo I registered my account in May, but life happened, and welp it's suddenly July. Oops.
Anyways, hello fellow aros! I'm Fish, and you can also call me RJ. I'm 37, bi/pan and arospec. She/her, gender-questioning, married to a straight man, and despite feeling super miserable and "not normal" for years, had no inkling I wasn't straight for the longest time because my identities are pretty invisible/straight-passing and the heteronormativity is STRONG.
I'm out online, but not IRL, and my feelings about this are pretty fluid - some days I'm quietly happy knowing who I a