femme_flock

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femme_flock

how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky
- May 26, 2018
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2. arokaladin
  
  Ah yeah, even more complicated then. Take some time planning how you do this/what you'll do if you break up and hopefully just having the plan will make things a little easier til then.
  
  May 27, 2018
  
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3. femme_flock
  
  Well, the cat was kinda forced outta the bag the other day and it's ... not going terribly? Like it's hard and my partner is really hurt and doesn't understand relationship anarchy but wants to work this out. But I know right now he feels really unhappy because he feels like there's something wrong with him and I cant reassure him completely otherwise I know we'll work through it and Im so much happier now that he knows and I feel free to love him platonically? But it'll be a struggle.
  
  May 28, 2018
  
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4. arokaladin
  
  Oh jeez good luck, I’m glad it’s not a catastrophe!
  
  May 29, 2018
  
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