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    the Flock
  • Orientation
    Aro, quoi*, aplatonic, bi lesbian
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    Transxenine, Genderfae, Intergender
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    varies; it/its generally used
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    I've actually also seen it used in the sense of voluntary vs. involuntary identity arguments in alterhuman communities (quoiluntary) as well as being used in reference to belief vs nonbelief in God/gods (quoitheist -- "my relationship to G?d cannot be defined by the ideas of belief or nonbelief" was the original way it way to me). It's definitely making it's way around other communities and other contexts and it's exciting!
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    how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky

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    2. arokaladin

      arokaladin

      Ah yeah, even more complicated then. Take some time planning how you do this/what you'll do if you break up and hopefully just having the plan will make things a little easier til then.

    3. femme_flock

      femme_flock

      Well, the cat was kinda forced outta the bag the other day and it's ... not going terribly? Like it's hard and my partner is really hurt and doesn't understand relationship anarchy but wants to work this out. But I know right now he feels really unhappy because he feels like there's something wrong with him and I cant reassure him completely otherwise :( I know we'll work through it and Im so much happier now that he knows and I feel free to love him platonically? But it'll be a struggle. 

    4. arokaladin

      arokaladin

      Oh jeez good luck, I’m glad it’s not a catastrophe! 

  5. femme_flock
    - Im quoiromantic and that's kind of the weird one in the aro spectrum - Im not purely 100% aro, for that matter - I don't actually believe there's a romantic/aromantic binary spectrum and everyone is along it somewhere and the only reason there seems to be one is because it's been socially constructed. So the differences and ostracization people feel is legit, it's just something that I feel, like gender, can be fixed and bridged by breaking apart the system of amatonormativity entirely. - I'm in relationships I'd call romantic - Even my platonic relationships look romantic - I've never had problems understanding romance (it's just that I don't understand why certain actions are coded as romantic only) - I like romance - Basically feel like I don't really belong or am included in the arospec even if people say I do/am so I feel kind of like I invade aro spaces bc Im not 100% aro but maybe thats just internalized crap
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