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  • Birthday February 28

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    the Flock
  • Orientation
    Aro, quoi*, aplatonic, bi lesbian
  • Gender
    Transxenine, Genderfae, Intergender
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    varies; it/its generally used
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    USA

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  1. femme_flock

    how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky

    1. arokaladin

      arokaladin

      that's a really hard place to be in and I know its easier said than done but please talk to him. In my experience not telling someone you're romance repulsed is a far more distressing road to the relationship ending that a simple break up would be, and you don't even know for definite that talking will lead to a 'crumble'. wishing you the best. 

    2. femme_flock

      femme_flock

      The problem is that Im literally entirely financially dependent on him. Without him I have no home, no income, nothing. And I don't want us to break up, we're just. The entire year we've been together here has been really rough and we're still not in a great place, so I'm really worried about bringing it up. 

      But I know I have to because ignoring my own boundaries is gonna hurt me and not saying anything until I explode will hurt him but I have no idea how to bring it up when he has AvPD and an intense fear of abandonment.

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