Help, im questioning

[Guest ShadowRoxy666]

I'm not sure if I'm aro or aroplatonic. I've been told many times I have a different definition of romantic and friends. For me romantic is holding hands,cuddling,compliments ect and friend is the complete opposite. No hugging no cuddling, compliments.. I've recently been in a relationship and I discovered I was uncomfortable when my partner wanted to do very sensual stuff, like massages. I also told them I was very repulsed by the idea of kissing as in full on makeout. Does anyone else understand what I mean and can maybe help me figure out.