Person of Interest! A+ found family content, only minimal romance, definitely your thing if you like spy/agent against the system kind of stuff and a group of initially reluctant people coming to love each other platonically.
I definitely got aro vibes from Nola Darling too!! @ladyasym i should finish that show, but i stopped because I didn't want to find out if she ends up in a mono romo relaitonship after all oops I also hc James Bond (Craig!Bond) as aro and het or aro and bi. Plus Harry Hart from Kingsman. They even accidentally made it canon lmao having him say he's never been in love but ofc they portrayed it as something oh so sad and tragic which... ugh.