elgar731

Just some words of support - that sounds like a rotten situation. Ireland is notoriously tricky for having the same people, in the same areas, going to the same schools, and it can be a blessing or a curse. 1st year is notoriously difficult, especially with people often being nasty gossips (I've heard of similar bullying situations to yours happening before in that year). However, there are loads of options open to ya. Firstly, maybe try talking about it with some adults that you trust. They might be able to talk some sense into people and/or offer some support. Transfering class might help, or if things are still really hard, transfering school, but hopefully it doesnt come to that. Remember that those who are quiet or in other gangs may be open to friendship but too shy to initiate. But regardless of all this, do not try to go it alone. There are loads of people you can talk to about it and loads of things you can try to make things better. People will change over time but I would reach out for support now. Speaking of reach out, Reach Out the organisation I've heard is good, and I know Jigsaw is fantastic as well. Take a deep breath, confide in people you trust and remember TY isn't that far away. I am being literally the embodiment of an Irish mammy right now but I'm thinking of ya and I promise it gets so much better out in the world. And there are good people somewhere around ya, it just might take a while to get to know them. I don't know what else to say but keep in touch and make sure u mind yourself, ya hear me? You're important and valuable and I can't wait to see you shine and enjoy yourself when the situation gets resolved. They're vicious eejits, but they're eejits, and remember you're the smart one not engaging in that kind of childish behaviour. Remember to talk to the fam too. All the best.