i'm fourteen years old and i've never had a crush. all my friends are dating or have crushes but i don't see the appeal in dating. yet, i see why people date. i don't feel anything towards dating, but i know that people date because they want to be closer to whoever they like. the closest relationship i want to have is friendship, and i'm not opposed to cuddling or anything. i'm still learning and figuring things out, so i wanted to know if this means i'm aro? because i'm not sure, but i feel like i am (if that makes any sense).