Merli

I have got told afterwards (since I don't remember it, not important information) that my best friend in preschool had walked out and said something like "I'm in love with *my name*". It didn't affect me at all and I had no thought about that it could lead to a relationship, which it also didn't. We was best friends and I just didn't had any thought of an romantic part of it.

I also was totally clueless about what to say when they started talking about crushes in school at like 12 years age. I choosed one guy that was my "crush" but it was more an combination of aesthetic appreciation and that I just thought he was quite nice, but no attraction was a part of it. I was never nervous to talk to him (more then that it's a stranger) and simply didn't care about him if he didn't came too near, then I'd shy away as from everyone. And yes, I thought about choosing a girl instead but no one seemed nice enough and he was the least bad alternative. Kept him a few years, until I realised that I was aroace. I am now crushless and plan to continue that. 

A random google trip made me find this on the question "how to get a girl in love with me".

(It is translated by me and might be a bit wrong)
1. Be interested in the enviroment/nature
2. Are you a woman? Play hard to get
3. Radiate pride or happiness, depending on which gender you are (a stupid thing is that gender and sex isn't seperated in this language, so it's not completely correct translated. And we enbies should mix I suppose?)
4. Are you a man? Play a bit mystical
5. Move your body (?)
6. Keep eyecontact long 
7. Believe it or not: smell
8. Get a dog

This made me laugh more then it should have done.

1 minute ago, ArrowAce said:

It was, I’m now in English, by far my favorite class. 

Nice, and I agree on that English is a good subject. At least most of the time.

22 minutes ago, ArrowAce said:

Hi, in biology lmao I’m a teen as well lol, just saw this so I thought I should pop in. 

Hello! Hope bio class is a pleasant experience 

1 hour ago, Whirl said:

I'm only a teen for two more months but how do you do, fellow kids?

Not much at the moment and have barely even had school today so that's nice. How about you?

Hello!

Is frogs the thing here?

The fact that I can't tell the difference between a romantic relationship and a close platonic one was a big part of why I started suspend I was aro. And apparently people have real crushes and not just made up ones cause that's how you do, discovered that this year... and I'm not very young. 

Hearing about QPR was also a helping part, that you can have a special relationship with someone without it being either romantic or sexual. 

18 minutes ago, Ithinkimaro said:

i probably won’t 

i keep forgetting about my own existence and AVEN’s so…

The discord really have changed focus from AVEN. I haven't forgotten your existence in a long time (aka since when I started to get to know you) though, but I understand you. 

Hello here too

2 hours ago, Ithinkimaro said:

MERLI

Hello

Hello there

1 hour ago, roboticanary said:

ey up!

hope you like it here

Thank you, it seems nice so far :)

52 minutes ago, AstrophelDragon said:

Hi Merli. Nice to meet you again

Hello, nice to see you again too

14 minutes ago, Deltalorian said:

We really are all converging on arocalypse huh. Well I wonder if you guys will ever come close to matching my post count, let alone beat it.

Also hi Merli, nice to see you here :)

Hello to you too :)

Yeah, you've promoted it well. We'll see if anyone beats your post count, we can at least try

Just joined here efter hearing about it, so hi everyone! 

I'm nonbinary and the aroace part was just a bonus. Found out about the ace part earlier, aro was quite recently. Anyways, it was just a nice realisation. I'm 16 years and don't really know what I'm doing to be honest. I like being out in nature though.