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On 12/8/2022 at 9:45 PM, Anaim said:

I'm on this site so often because it is one of the few things that slips under my school's radar, and yet i don't post ever... figured i should try to start doing that...

So here I am 

Hello there!

7 hours ago, Storm_leopardcat said:

Jumping teacher? Dressage teacher?

Yeah, I go on a school with horse education. We have subjects about horses and will get a title there more than just the normal (maths, Swedish, English, history and so on)

6 hours ago, Harvest said:

yall who is your favourite teacher and why?

Either my bio teacher who also is my tutor, cause she's just a great teacher and care about her students, or my show jumping teacher who is overall nice and explains things fairly well. I like most of my teachers to be fair, it's only one I dislike (the whole class does) and two that is like acceptable, the maths and dressage teachers.

16 hours ago, Fandom Fanatic said:

Um hi. For anyone who knows me, I'm Fandom from AVEN. There's no way I'll be able to get back onto AVEN (computer search settings) but I figured, might as well make an Arocalyspe account. Had been planning to for a while, anyways.

Hello, glad to see you again!

4 hours ago, Harvest said:

what are yall dressing up for halloween

I'm doing an Andorian from Star Trek

I consider going with my family role, the house elf. Not sure exactly how to do it though, but I don't think it'll be a big difference to my casual irl appearance lol

Got to know I'll be at a Halloween inspired meeting yesterday so haven't planned it well. Haven't really been on one before

4 minutes ago, ArrowAce said:

Not by choice, it was because I was flying about 8 hours and prior to that I was up for like 6 hours. Landed 2 hour layover, 2 hour flight. Walking and stuff all day. Stupid jet lag kept me up and i didn’t sleep. Next day I walked all day and stuff and passed out back in the hotel room.

It sucks. I didn’t choose not to sleep

My friends saw a whole new side of me from that endevour

Good it wasn't by your choice

Just now, ArrowAce said:

Fine. I mean I went 40-48 hours w/o sleep. It’s possible it’s just annoying.

That's bad, avoid doing it again. I do it for fun, but it's not very fun to be honest

2 hours ago, Aye said:

never

sleep is bad

for the weak

You doesn't seem weak but do sleep anyway

1 minute ago, ArrowAce said:

YES

No, don't encourage this behavior

Welcome here, and nice to see you again!

Your English is fine : )

4 hours ago, ArrowAce said:

trust me you don't need sleep the last week I lived off of 3-4 hours and a cup of coffee (per day)

Don't encourage anyone here to not sleep, we're already way to good at it. Especially around Aye is it good if we all cooperates encouraging them to sleep

Just thought of how I could've used people (well, one specific person) who time after time asked me who I had a crush on and a couple of times if I had a boyfriend. One time she also asked if I had a girlfriend, that's at least something (I wasn't out as enby then). 

Think it might've been a fun reaction to just answer "you" and continue doing whatever I happend to do at the moment. Think she would stop asking then, and probably believe me.

I'm a bad human. But if someone is in same situation that I was and wants to try, then you can fully blame it on me.

Ecological pyramid

Vertebrate

(Translated, I thought of it in my first language)

I'm out to most people as enby, have only mentioned that I'm ace to my mom and no one irl knows that I'm aroace (yet... things will change very soon, and that might be a fun story). 

Most of my family got to know it by me making a messenger group and telling them that I'm enby, they do what they want with that information. Went fairly well, most was accepting but also some of them didn't answer. My grandma on dad's side leaved the group lol. Whatever, I don't need her. That was a fun experience.

My dad doesn't believe in it, my mom is accepting. 

My irl friend/acquaintance (old classmate) was also cool about it. Pretty much "Oh, okay, good then I know that 👍"

The teachers also know, and most of them is good about it. My tutor is amazing. 

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Also trans enby here.

I choosed a name by mixing random letters, deciding that this might work, tested it out a bit as a username online and now when I moved to completely new place just used this name instead. I don't really feel anything special about it, but I like it better. It has taken some time to get used to it, but it's fine now and have never felt wrong.

I don't hate my deadname either, and thought I wanted to keep it as second name for a long time but have changed my mind on that. 

I don't really have any advices to give, but this is how I've done. Hope you find your name, all those you mentioned sounds cool

9 hours ago, queer_kaleidoscope said:

Just out of curiosity, is anybody here on a sports team? 

I do sports but I'm not in a sports team. The school I'm in is themed around that sport and everything about it though, so if you count the school class even though we not compete togheter then perhabs

I would not say that I'm sporty overall, but fairly good at mine

With reservations for that I'm aroace and this is just third people view, but still something I guess. 

My childhood best friend said he had a crush on me when we was like 6-7  I think? I don't know how serious it was (it was not a joke though) or what types of attractions. Not sexual I suppose, but still like something more than platonic? Idk, we was friends.

Another friend had a crush when we was like 10-11. I don't know more exactly there either. Around that time was when they started talking about it. 

10 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

just learned about my father's side of the family and all the drama that happened before we were even born.

Turn's out my father left for the milk and never came back lol.

8 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

also he never even wanted us.he wanted to "get rid" of us.

Oh dear, I'm so sorry about that. His lost, good that you got rid of him 

I'm stuck at 12 posts and have so been for a bit now

1 hour ago, Storm_leopardcat said:

If you don’t mind me asking, which movie is it?

When the crawdads sing

I did tbh not really watch the trailer, it was both uninteresting and too many unpredictable romance scenes lol.

Type: Voidpunk which seems to be pretty accurate. Think I'll take that label now as well.

Representation: Aroace only lol.

Tarot: Sword. Fun, swords are cool.

Flag: Aromantic.

14 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

I agree.Everyone irl doesn't truly know me.Everyone on here knows who i am.And i can actually be myself on here without trying to hide pieces of me or trying to live up to expectations.

Kind of same, the online folks do at least know me much better than those irl. I doubt that anyone actually knows me well though, including myself. I don't even know how to be myself, how could anyone know how I really am then.

That's not said with a sad tone, more simple fact lol

I today got to see a trailer on a film we should watch in school (or well, we should go to a cinema to watch it but it's a school thing. Not really sure why we need to go to a cinema for it). It was many romantic scenes just only on the trailer so I'm a bit worried over what that will happend during the whole film... I'm not romance repulsed but just please don't show so much romance, thanks? I also hope there isn't any sex scenes in this.

The main story seems interesting though, it was something with a murder. Totally unnecessary to add so much romance. 

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