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6 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

thank you all for the happy birthdays! made me smile reading all the messages :) 

im pretty late to this as well, so happy late birthday. 

cheek and forehead kisses are fine. i like them. 

5 hours ago, Deltalorian said:

Yay I haven't missed page 100, how is everyone?

im doing good. i just woke up minutes ago. how about you?

18 hours ago, kira- said:

welcome back

thank you.

1 hour ago, organs and bone said:

Two more days keft 😢 get ur last aros in hehe

ah, i didnt even realize a week will pass by this quickly. better take the time to celebrate before it ends.

i didnt even know it was aro awareness week, so im just going to bid happy arospec awareness week to everyone i guess.

happy arospec awareness week. i havent logged on in a while.

On 10/2/2023 at 9:47 PM, TrueEvergreen said:

just came back to this website after a while, and im surprised at how dead this chat is, it used to be a lot more active

maybe its inactive due to school. its been a while since i logged on as well.

i relate to the chara in my pfp a lot. thats kind of it.

On 9/10/2023 at 4:15 AM, Deltalorian said:

I see I'm no longer a top poster on this thread... I shall do what I must

ure close tho.

2 hours ago, Isa1116 said:

a clear ring on a necklace

it refers to this alt symbol below

but theres 1 more symbol which u havent mentioned that looks like this

yh. 4 many ppl sexuality is fluid. i used to exp attraction as well b4 realizing im anattractional but that doesnt invalidate my orientation now. u can have past crushes n still id as aspec

ure not too young to know that ure any orientation. gay folks may find out theyre gay v early on n their age doesnt inherently invalidate their orientation either. so age shouldnt b a concern 4 aspecs either

dt so. questioning orientation happens to a lot of ppl n while some r indeed what theyre questioning; others might b smth else. its not an immediate sign that ure arospec; it js tells me that u might b 

6 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

Ive started watching young royals and there's like sex scenes and it's bizzare like??? people think like this????this can't be normal???? yall are lying? people actuallly look at a picture of essentially a stranger and are like in fucking love???? bewildering and confusing. 

understandable. i dislike sex scenes when its unnecessary. but when its used to add depth n symbolism to the story idm it; such as the 1 done in arcane which is used to create contrast between the 2 charas theyre comparing

romantic n sexual scenes in horror movies is 1 of my biggest pet peeves 

is there anything bad w the fact that yall still feel mutually romantically attracted or

shorter answer is heteronormativity n amanormativity. loads of ppl mistake being aspec as straight 4 some reason due to amanormativity. not exping certain attraction n desiring certain relationships/activities is confusing to them 

i do this to establish boundaries n potentially meet fellow arospecs irl

after reading this 4 the 1000th time i think he might b aroace guys

can def relate. i have a cat rn n always liked chilling w him. altho currently i prioritize friends over their nonhuman counterparts i still adore him v much. i dont consider him as a pet but rather a friend

6 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

oh my god that fucking sucks.

yh. being human sucks ass

8 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

School starts in 1 month for me. It starts on the 7th. I don't want to go back. I'm excited about it too though. I get to take art every day now so that's fun i guess. 

i have to go back on the 16th this month. i want to kms

some labels that fits r cupioromantic n romance favorable fyi. ure not less aro js bc u enjoy n crave romance. i myself enjoy well written romance sometimes as well

chill. holy shit. im also romance repulsed but alloros r not stupid 4 prioritizing their romantic attraction n talking abt it. ure also targeting fellow arospecs by saying this. i get amanormativity is frustrating but barking at randos living their lives is not it 

2 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

I FORGOT TO YELL Y'ALL!!! My mom told her homophobic and racist co worker to go to hell!!!!

aggressive allies r my fav flavor

3 minutes ago, SwiftySpeedy said:

is the car treatment good enough for andrew tate, or does he need worse (joking)

idk much abt him. but id still say he needs worse