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(Sorry it's a bit late but..)

I'm (probably)  not on the aplatonic spec but maybe I can help you with alterous attraction

I've read that alterous attraction feels different for everyone so my experiences might or might not align with yours

For me alterous attraction feels like

1. 'mm I would kinda like to date that person  but I won't be jealous or hurt if they date someone else. Being their romantic partner would be nice, but for some reason being their friend is just as appealing'

and also

I don't feel butterflies when I'm with them

(For me, butterflies are always present when I feel romantic attraction. so if the butterflies aren't there, big sign that the attraction isn't fully romantic) 

Or 

2. 'Ummmm I definitely don't want to date them in real life but why am I feeling all these butterflies?? ;o; I think I would be jealous if they started dating someone but me dating this person? Ewww'

I dont know if you read it already, but here's a reddit post I read about alterous attraction

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Froggy

9 minutes ago, Lovebird said:

Nothing. Where I live Halloween isn't really celebrated, unless you're from the suburbs as Halloween is typically seen as an American holiday but it's gained a resurgence in my country over the last 2 decades.   

Me too

But maybe I'll play the halloween event in the game animal crossing

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Almost everyone at my school is basically talking about crushes, romo relationships, who likes who romantically, who got in a relationship with who, dating etc whenever they get the chance

Like what happened to y'all

Its so weird cause everybody is suddenly interested in these things

Or was I just not paying attention to anyone

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happy ace week! :D

>:)

hi :D 

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hi :)

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I feel like I'm lying about my aroness mostly

sometimes i think that maybe I'm just a really confused allo, maybe I've been faking and I've tricked myself and everyone around me, or maybe I'm a late bloomer 

And the way I experience my grayromanticism, if it even is that doesn't help me.

I get crushes often compared to other grayros i see online. but it's so weak that my longest fully romantic crush only lasted 2 days 

So I feel aro most of the time I guess but I don't feel like I belong anywhere because of my getting crushes pretty often thing

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