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The best thing is to explain how your feeling to the person.

It's always better if someone tells you te truth, tells you that they really wanted to love you, but that it's not possible for them, than you just imagining things or discovering them later.

There are plenty of possibilities for relationships ! You can have really close binds with some people, and be in some kind of relationship without it being romantic. I'm sure you'd be able to find some people out there that want something similar to what you want. 

In the end, best thing is communication ! You need to find out what you want, what is important to you, what are your limits, in order to say it to others. Then you'll know about theirs, and you'll be able to deal with it !

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2 hours ago, nonmerci said:

 

Personally, I don't feel platonic attraction cause I don't met people and think "wow I want to be their friends", and because I don't have anything that pushes me to continue a friendship with a specific person

I know that I feel this kind of attraction from time to time, but it's quite rare. Thank you for the new introspection !

2 hours ago, nonmerci said:

That makes it more difficult to pursue friendship cause I can stay weeks without thinking about my friends, so harder to keep contact

I see what you mean here. I'm not aplatonic, but I did exactly this when I went out with someone. It's cool when you see the person, we can appreciate that, but it's also cool without and thinking about them and texting them all the time is a bit of a burden