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i was in a relationship with someone for a while and we had a good connection but my world revolved around them. they left me and i didn’t date for a year and then i found a partner. i never really liked them from the beginning. i just dated them because i thought it would “help me move on”. well it was toxic and they treated me like shit. i waited for a while before going on a date. she told me she didn’t feel a connection between us romantically. i didn’t either. i went home and thought about it for a long time. i realized i never experienced that attraction. i was only obsessed with all of my exes and with my last relationship i grew out of it.

okay thank you! 

i desire a relationship but i have never felt romantic attraction only sexual. would it be wrong to continue to date and go out with people. i want to have a deep connection with someone but i can’t feel romantically towards them. would i be leading them on if i do? how do i explain it to them? 

i’ve been questioning and i’m pretty sure i’m aromantic. i’ve been talking to people who are aro and they all talk about about hating romance and being disgusted by it but i don’t mind it and i actually like it. is that fine?