i was in a relationship with someone for a while and we had a good connection but my world revolved around them. they left me and i didn’t date for a year and then i found a partner. i never really liked them from the beginning. i just dated them because i thought it would “help me move on”. well it was toxic and they treated me like shit. i waited for a while before going on a date. she told me she didn’t feel a connection between us romantically. i didn’t either. i went home and thought about it for a long time. i realized i never experienced that attraction. i was only obsessed with all of my exes and with my last relationship i grew out of it.