Maryland

2 hours ago, Aye said:

never

sleep is bad

for the weak

YES

ARomantic Relationship Offerer of Wisdom

AARDVARK

29

I cannot sleep it is forbidden by my resees cup addiction

It’s 11 past midnight, should I sleep tvt

This is awful, I don’t stand anywhere politically. But this is completely unfair. I live in Maryland. (Washington co. To be exact and it’s heavily republican.) I live right near Virginia and I believe Virginia is very republican (and pro-gun, learned that yesterday. As like the kids sports game I was at was raffling off a literal shotgun.) anywho. I think this is completely unjust.

10 minutes ago, Twilight Firefly said:

I have libido, but people don't trigger it. It's kinda just...there in my bloodstream, and fictional characters seem to be where all my romantic and sexual energy gets funneled to.

This hits hard, this is like me omg

this honestly describes my life along with thinking I’m an “antisocial allo” honestly I needed this post :) glad you could understand yourself more :3

Noice that’s cool!

7 minutes ago, Aye said:

not someone on here

they are very very cute

i ship

 

AVEN? Wait I wanna know

Aw who is it? Is it someone on here or something else like woah that’s cool

🗿

Sometimes I feel like I’m lying to myself about being aro ace. Like I get being aroace is against the social norm in a way. But like sometimes I feel like it’s just I’m in denial of being aroace. 
 

it’s gotten to the point I feel like I just don’t seem worth it to be aroace. Like it’s sometimes I’m walking down the hall listening to like those aroace playlists on Spotify and such. Just to make it feel like I belong with this community. I don’t feel attraction to anyone sexually or romantically. But sometimes I don’t feel attraction like platonically or sensually. Like I feel detached from like everyone else emotionally. And like anything like that.

Hell sometimes I don’t feel anything to friends or family. I don’t think this is a mental disorder but I just don’t know.

does anyone else feel like they are lying about being part of the a-spec community?

2 minutes ago, Deltalorian said:

Ah, well that's not particularly great is it

No not my strong suit.

There’s no new acronym. I guess I shall continue holding the torch. 
 

sus

Rouge bacon. (Rouge one)

1 hour ago, AromanticAardvark said:

Of Bacon and Men

Of mice and men? :9

Oh cool! Yea someone tried to bring me on a date.

1 hour ago, Aye said:

yeah that happens a lot

 

yeah that happens a lot

 

what the fuck

Dude is more flabbergasted than I was when someone hit on me

1 hour ago, Storm_leopardcat said:

No, you do not need fixing. You aren’t broken, and what that girl did was horrible. No one should have to face such behaviour from anyone, that was pretty creepy. Also, I’m pretty sure it counts as non consensual sexual contact and sexual harassment. 

You did the right thing by taking action, hopefully the girl will face punishment for it and will be sanctioned. 

Was the friend that you mentioned in double-quotes that girl? I apologise if this is an insensitive question. 

No, some other girl in his friend group.

1 hour ago, Nix said:

but does your school have some sort of counselor?

yes it does.

44 minutes ago, The Gray Warlock said:

First of all, ditch your "friend." Secondly, you did the right thing. That is not acceptable. I'm sorry this experience made you feel so badly. But you can learn from it. Grow stronger, and don't ever let anyone devalue you.

I did, and this really hits hard :) I really needed this :) both for this post but also personal struggles :)

basically, this girl came up to me a couple of minutes after I told my "friend" I was ace, didn't specify being aro. ANd this girl tried hitting on me in such a sexual way like that it genuinely frightened me. She basically came up to me and started like caressing my shoulders and doing some other sexual remarks and actions i.e. "meet me in the bathroom"  (yuck) it was bad enough like I thought something was wrong with me. She claimed she was "fixing me" and I should "give into it" and she kept saying that "this is better for you." 

I've already done a report to the schools principal, but that most likely won't go anywhere as school tends to say that the boys are just boys when a girl reports sexual harassment. However I (male) reporting this probably will seem strange as I "should like it".

This truly broke me, I don't know what to think. Any help will be nice.

4 minutes ago, Merli said:

Don't encourage anyone here to not sleep, we're already way to good at it. Especially around Aye is it good if we all cooperates encouraging them to sleep

honestly for me I've  handled It well, it is people's body preference, I have no say in it. but as I sorta did that when I was overseas, I didn't adjust at all to European time. and I slept about that much (about 4 months later) and yet I haven't adjusted, I've talked with my doctor and such, and I have been taking some sleep meds. 

trust me you don't need sleep the last week I lived off of 3-4 hours and a cup of coffee (per day)

last night I was up researching a type of airplane youu can fly without a licence (part 131) 

it's pretty cool, but 14k damnnnnn well some weddings to do in the future and it can work.

broken

On 10/7/2022 at 11:13 AM, Ella said:

Eww

I don’t know exactly what it is but it doesn’t seem that good 

strawberry milk

Blue crabs are basically Maryands Native crabs, however they are bue when aive, they are red when not

anywho, ew sounds bad because ive never tried it

old bay ice cream? (yes us marylanders put old bay on anything, just google old bay vodka, its a thing.)

yum.

blue crabs?

On 9/29/2022 at 11:40 PM, alto said:

I emailed the Tallinn police, and they did a wellness check.  He is now furious at me and "hates me a lot for caring about him".  This boy is more fucked in the head than I know how to help with.

Don’t get why he said it. Glad the Tallinn police responded back. International stuff can be sent thru so many levels of bureaucracy it’s crazy (long story my AirTag was taken by the carabinari in Italy, and it was just now sent to my address in the states (4 months after I lost it.)