Mihiko

Ewww

Tartare steak?

The latest, clear sign I was aromantic that I can remember was during my primary school. My classmates were talking about crushes in class, who they like and why. And I was just listening to them thinking 'why they are so excited about?' 'isn't she too young to be in love? She is like 11'.

So I was just being silent and awkward in my head. And then the most feared question come: Who is your crush? - moment of thinking and I said I don't. Of course, it's weird to not to have crush in age of 11 and I was obviously lying. That what my classmates assumed and they pushed me to tell them who was it. I come out with the first name I could recall and it was the name of the boy in my class. Fortunately, they weren't strong in trying to get us together because there was another girl who liked him and they were her friends. But then there were a few situations for which I wanted to hit myself in the head at that moment.

supported

False

TPBM is fast

blue

Moon first

WYR take over the richest company or country?

22

Type: Loveless aro

Representation: Never Shown

Tarot: Pentacles - very accurate :-)

Flag: Lithromantic / Akoiromantic - I like the colours of the flag, it's pretty :-)

Tired

False

TPBM wants to go to the nude beach

Ears grow to the size of an elephant's ears

Both sound pretty uncomfortable thou.

WYR drink soured milk or the most dirty water for the rest of your life

I accidentally find myself on the pride parade. It wasn't my plan and I didn't know it was there but I brought the aro flag there.

The flag is now on my wall behind my bed :-)

I don't have one yet. I don't like rings so I'm not sure if I will wear it. However, I really want to somehow show that I'm aromantic in my daily life with a small symbol.

Neither of them

I found the picture on google when I was looking for one. I liked it and I got attached to it after the time I was using it.

No. The reason is simple - it costs too much.

And I don't care about it. I liked to imagine myself in a wedding dress because it's pretty but the whole marriage thing doesn't appeal to me.

False

TPBM favourite genre is fantasy

In primary school, when we were around 11 years old, someone asked me who is my crush. It was a first time I was personally involved but my class was having crushes even earlier. Heard someone had their 4th anniversary in the same year. I was never interested, and when asked, I lied that I had a crush on someone.

Your answers really helped me thank you all for help :-)

Hello, I joined today and I quite recently discovered I can be in aromantic spectrum.

I read about what aromantic means and about signs of aromantic of other people. Many of them is matching: I never had a crush, I had to come out with some when I was talking with my friends. The possible crush was after all a 'squish' in fact. I'm romantic repulsive to idea of me in relationship and I not always understand the romantic actions of others. Or the concept of love itself. I always thought that there was something wrong with me because others found each other one or more partners and I didn't even want to think about it too much. And there is many other factors that indicate that I'm aromantic.

But I still enjoy some romantic stories. I have ships and I have few favourite romance stories that I like to read/watch. Does that mean I'm not aromantic and confuse it with something else?

Usually, when watching / reading other genres, I do not pay attention to whether there is any romance in it. I also remember that in some stories I felt repulsive at the sight of some romantic actions or did not understand how the characters came together even though others took it for certainty. I like some romances for other features like e.g. representation of the world or a dash. However, I really like some of them for a main relationship and I have a lot of ships or OC that I create to be with some character. Does that exclude me from being an aromatic?

Thank you if you choose to answer. I don't know if my problem is trivial and I shouldn't write it, but I'm very anxious when I finally start to understand something about myself and I don't have any other people to ask so I decided to write here.