IsyKix

This is a little old but the movie Ender's Game has no romance in it, the book is phenomenal as well!

I actually have two confessions!

1. It's hard for me to be like happy for my romantic friends when they enter romantic relationships because I guess in my head it's just not that big of a deal. Like you kissed someone what do you want me to do throw a party??? Like I know it makes them happy but why so much?? But then if they break up with their partner and they're sad, then I feel bad. I never interfere with people's relationships (obviously that's pretty messed up, but I don't help them either.) but in my head, I'm always like "meh I don't really care."

2. I'm actually really good at giving advice on romantic relationships because I have such an outward view of them it's easy to make them simple to find solutions for (most of the time.)

20 hours ago, Abster said:

I feel  that just because I am Aromantic but allosexual people will think that all I care about is sex and that I’m only using people for just that.... they will probably write me off as some kind of ‘emotionless whore’ (I am a cis female) for having a sexual attraction to men rather than wanting a romantic relationship as ‘all women do is desire romance’

This has actually happened to me before, I came out to one of my close friends as aro, (She's very romantic) and she asked me if I just have one night stands all the time or something. There's nothing wrong with that, but the way she said it she sounded so disgusted. It sucks when this happens, but you'll know who you can talk to about this stuff when you come out! I don't really talk to her about being aro because I know how she'll react. If you feel safe around the person and you're ready to come out then you should go ahead and do it. Usually, the worst that can happen is that it will cause a temporary roadblock on your friendship. If they make a really big deal out of it then they probably aren't a really good friend.