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Ravensplat

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  1. 5 hours ago, sydd said:

    so I thought should reach out to the romantic community because I need some advice.

    Not sure if it's a typo so just making sure your aware this is the Armoantic community (No romance). It's a really spelling mistake a lot of spellcheckers will make. 

    Also a note, I'm AroAce so I have the most shared experiences with your friend rather than you but I do take in a lot of information so I will try to help you out. 

    Firstly your feeling are valid always. The reasoning for the feelings maybe be not a great but feeling themselves should never be discounted. What may be happening here is your friend is discovering themselves and it's a very confusing time where you aren't sure what you are feeling and which type of attraction certain feelings are. It a confusing time and there are many types of Aro/Ace with Demi, Gray and Flux variations on both orientations. There is also the expectation to be in a relationship so you pretend till you can't pretend anymore, such as not wanting to ruin a friendship over something they don't/can't actually care about. 

    I don't know how your feeling and I'm not going to try and guess because there is very little I can relate to. I would explain to your friend that you want some space while you get over this but, if you do still want to be friends then day that. This is a complicated thing and maybe you could suggest just talking over text for now. It give both of you more time and space to think about what you want to say. 

    If they are AroAce they might not realise just how much it means to you and how hurt you are by their casual announcement. You may not be able to be mad at their choices but you can be annoyed at the way in which the news was delivered. I hope this helps and you are able to feel better about it at some point. If you want to chat more about it either comment or private message me. Best of luck to you.

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  2. Do you have to do the ways ways it will affect in your lifetime as well because although I don''t know anything about Peru specifically I can throw some notes and references together If you need some help on that. 

    Best of Luck!

  3. 13 minutes ago, bookluver20 said:

    Hello everyone! I have have come from ATC on AVEN because no one told me this existed 

    Nice to see you BookLuver. Glad you found it

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  4. 1 hour ago, AromanticAardvark said:

    Well it turns out my science project, which is due mid-March, is in fact NOT due mid-March, it's due tomorrow. And I haven't started

    What's it on. Do you want any help? I know a fair bit around Physics and Chemistry if it's in that part of science

  5. 3 hours ago, Emily415 said:

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    I hope you are feeling less AAAAAAAAAAaaaaAAAAAAA now Emily. I will reiterate what I said over in AVEN. You are amazing and incredible and deserve all the things. I can't edit anything to save my life so just imagine the purpose of hands meme (https://images.app.goo.gl/cfawY3Xrx4AVn4k67) with your name in it instead ok. Great! Hope you had a good sleep!

  6. On 2/23/2023 at 8:39 PM, Anaim said:

    So i was was not paying attention in biology today, and all of a sudden i hear the word asexual, i start internally freaking out until i realize that the teacher is talking about asexual reproduction in cells... so yeah that happened

    I’ve never had this. Probably because I dropped biology as soo as I could (very squeamish when not in an emergency situation seem to shut it off then) so never covered it properly but I do sometimes zone out and then hear people talking about trans rights or something in a study period and just mentally go here we go again and then basically just try to say people deserve to live because I can’t deal with fighting for any more of my rights than that nor do I want to be a queer dictionary do them. The panic I’ve felt though when I feel stuff mentioned in unrelated circumstances is strong when I’m part of those communities and identify with it. 

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  7. 1 hour ago, Moeir said:

    Wow this really isn't like AVEN, usually if I leave there's 15 new pages but here only one page existed

    Hello Fellow Avenite. This is end up spending more time over here as it’s all just a bit slower and easy to catchup on. I hate missing out on stuff. (As is shown in me catching up to a minecraft server but currently stuck in videos from October) and catching up on stuff in here is easy. 

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