The Non-Month May

4 hours ago, SoulWolf said:

I am curious also...  

Who are 'they'?

"they" are usually the one portrayed as the female in the relationship when it is broken off. idek, i feel like being salty XD.

I should have been more specific as to what I meant. i was really tired XD.

I'm afraid that my friends will think I'm too clingy and affectionate and one day they'll all leave me.

why they act like their cat was just stabbed in front of them and then got pepper sprayed in the face

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why did I write that

1 hour ago, ApeironStella said:

YMBAI you always ended up making jokes about being "wife/husband" with your closest friends and you were always so close that you always ended up questioning if that it was 'something else' because society says if it is that close, it MUST BE 'stepping into romance zone' but anytime you try it, it just gets really awkward and off so you revert back to BFF status. 

 

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Oh gosh this so much. I had a friend I really respected and liked and would just love to hug her brain because she was WONDERFUL, but??? Since I obsessed so much over her, I tried to date with her but it then all felt weird. I just ended up 'treating her as a friend' as you say. We kinda never exactly break up verbally but it was obvious that we didn't work out that way and there were other reasons we don't talk much now but I would LOVE to brainstorm with her again. 10/10 would love to be BFFs and/or sibling-ish friends with her again.

Exxxaaaccctttlllyyyyy. I know the feeling. I just wanna be friends with everybody!!! I have lots of friends that I brainstorm and chat with, and I love friends that are like siblings. Though, it sometimes sucks when I tell one of my friends I love them, and then I have to say 'platonically' or they'll get the wrong idea. Still, friends are great!!!

You might be aromantic if you try and 'date' someone, but treat them just like you would a friend. Then, you get confused and break up with them, happy that you're friends again. -.-