hippiecat

On 28 July 2016 at 6:07 PM, hippiecat said:

I don't think I perfectly fit into any of the houses... but i guess Ravenclaw? I think I've considered all of them except for Hufflepuff (because I'm pretty lazy and stuff).

I've recently realised that I actually am Hufflepuff  and my Ilvermony house is Thunderbird. The combo is pretty spot-on 

I'm currently feeling a lot like this. Sometimes I feel so disconnected from friends and family, and really want an aro soulmate type of person in my life. It seems unfair that you need to feel and show romantic/sexual attraction to connect with someone deeply (not that that's true, but sometimes it feels like it). I dunno, confusing things.

I guess I fear a little bit about all my friends leaving me for romantic partners... But then again, it seems like that won't be an issue for many years since I'm so young. And I'm pretty hopeful that I'll find good friends who'll stick around ^^. Maybe even some of my current friends will stay with me, who knows 

I couldn't get through the test, some of the statements were really annoying. Halfway through I had 0 points.

I don't drink too often since I get really horrible hangovers, but sometimes yeah. And the older I am the more boring drinking seems to get 

Good luck to everyone who are thinking about coming out!

I don't think I'll be coming out to anyone unless they ask me about it. Like if my dad wanted to know if I was a lesbian or something, I would say that I'm asexual and not interested in relationships. Not sure he'd take me seriously but whatever, I think the older I get the more "believable" my aro-aceness becomes, lol.

I'm 19 and nope, never been in a relationship  and probably never will, although I'm always open for it if by some magical reason my orientation changes (not likely) and I meet the perfect person.

I'm aroace and my ring fingers are longer than index fingers on both hands, although the difference is bigger on my left hand

On 29.7.2017 at 9:37 AM, meesemouse said:

Ooh how about when friends tease you about liking someone, and you get flustered and irritated trying to explain that you don't like said person whatsoever. Of course, they take it as you being defensive and therefore you are suddenly ~soooo~ in love with this person. I just don't get how people jump to these conclusions 

ohhh i hate this so much. how are you supposed to react if you want to state that you don't like said person? i suppose even ignoring the whole thing would be seen as "proof" of liking someone.

(also, i seem to have run into you as well )

On 29.7.2017 at 9:19 AM, meesemouse said:

for me stumbling upon aromanticism wasn't as much of a radical realization but more of a puzzle piece finally clicking into place because you understand where it goes.

this is a really good way to put it, i can totally relate!

"It's okay not to have crushes. Also look up 'aromantic asexual', it might make your life easier. And please don't make out with random guys at parties, you will instantly regret it."

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I love both simply_kenna and Lauren Harkins  they're the most relatable youtubers for me personally

I first wondered about what was wrong with me around age 14. I could never name a crush when my friends asked about it, and no one believed me. But I was always sure that it would change and all the boys in my class were just gross. I'm 19 now and pretty sure I'm aro/ace but always open to things changing... So in a way I feel like you can know at a very young age and also that you can never truly KNOW. Although sexuality can change so that's that. I'm rambling a bit but I guess you can identify as aro whenever you start feeling like you differ from your peers when it comes to crushes and romance etc. And if one day you realise you're something else, then just go with it, labels aren't everything .

19  a teen for only 9 more months... waaa

I got androgynous, but yeah... this test was insanely stupid . And I don't really care about gender, but would think I'm a lot more female than male.

Proud Ravenclaw  I would also definitely join the hunters of Artemis. Since I can't be her child, I guess I would be Hecate's instead.

On 6/4/2017 at 0:55 PM, jenny_any_dots said:

YMBAI you started identifying as ace and then were like how do all these ace people have relationships?... and then read this post about ways YMBA and found a lot of things that you identify with

 

just me? haha

not just you, definitely relate 

YMBAI you see a post on tumblr that says "imagine how great it would be if your favorite person was laying in bed next to you right now giving you soft kisses" and your reaction is AAAAHHH GROSS 

I play the violin ^^. I'm also going to spend next year studying music in a local conservatory... though after that I'll probably start studying something else at uni  (not good enough to actually make a living as a musician lol)

Congrats, now you can speak all languages. Too bad aliens who have been spying Earth for a while notice you speaking their language - now they think we've found out about them and decide to attack and kill all of us.

I wish people weren't so judgemental.

hi again

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I don't think I perfectly fit into any of the houses... but i guess Ravenclaw? I think I've considered all of them except for Hufflepuff (because I'm pretty lazy and stuff).

And I would love to be one of the hunters of Artemis (obviously she can't be my godly parent)! It's funny when reading the books and for the characters the no-dating is such a difficult thing and I'm like... a group of awesome girls who aren't allowed to date? WHERE CAN I SIGN UP.

Don't really know about the Divergent stuff.

INTP

i think it's a fun test but i agree that it lacks validity