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I STILL DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT THIS IS BUT YOU GUYS ARE SILLY OMG

You had to lie about having a celebrity crush or having crushes in general.

I was raised in a non-denominational church with very religious parents. As in, homosexuality is wrong and sex before marriage is wrong and the Bible is God's word, every bit of it. As for my beliefs, it is up in the air right now. I don't think things like homosexuality is wrong, especially since I am bi. I am fine with sex as long as it is consensual and of age. I don't believe in the whole Bible. As for God and Jesus, I don't know honestly. I have been getting into witchy stuff recently. I think I may just go pagan but I don't know yet. It is all just a big mess right now.

I think Kaylee from Firefly maybe bi aro? She doesn't have much interest in romance and is more interested in the family and in engines. She does have sexual interest in boys and very much appreciates females. Plus she is a cutie.

Coming out? Well I came out to my friends as bi a while ago when I was dating my ex. All of them were cool with it surprisingly. I came out to my brother and I was extremely grateful that he was fine with it. I kinda came out to my friend as in she follows my personal tumblr and saw I was identifying as bi aro. She has been awesome. I told another friend I was aro and she was also cool with it. As for my parents, they know nothing. They are super religious and think homosexuality is wrong and sex should be after marriage and yadda yadda yadda. They love me and they probably would actually still love me even if I came out but I don't know for sure. I am 22 and a legal adult but I am still financially supported by them. So I am waiting until I am moved out to come out. I don't know if I will come out as aro to them because I don't want to explain it and coming out as bi will be hard enough already. 

I went from straight to heteroflexible to bisexual to bi aro. I only thought I was straight because I didn't think that I could be anything else.

Just now, Equinox said:

 

This is the most annoying thing. It's okay to enjoy a series or character just because, isn't it?

Yeah exactly! He is a super interesting character! I don't want to like date him (that would be a nightmare) but I think him being in real life would be hilarious and awesome. This is true for a lot of other characters too. I just like cool characters okay?

I knew I aro cause I had to fake  having crushes growing up. I had to fake having celebrity crushes even online for some reason. People thought my love for Sherlock meant I had a crush on him. Sigh...

I have been in a relationship. It was long distance but I thought that the strong friendship would bring up feelings of love. It didn't. It was how I figured out I was aro. I didn't think I was before because I was sexually attracted to people and my ex. And that is how I figured out I was bi aro.