Codifer

On 3/6/2020 at 6:41 PM, arokaladin said:

Liking people for their physical appearance could be attributed to sexual attraction. So if you know your sexual orientation you might realise that your feeling of being drawn to physical appearance can be attributed to sexual attraction, or you might realise it's very separate, or doesn't feel like an attraction at all, or that it happens outside of the genders you're sexually attracted to etc. etc. Basically it's a starting point.

 

(For me, a lot of my 'crushes' on' people were jealously stemming from gender dysphoria. Don't have the info to know if that's the case for you, but it's an example of the weird places supposed attractions can come from)

I am a trans male- never thought about crushes coming from jealousy, i guess ill start thinking about that too.

Im bi- maybe, thats another thing. I like girls, not often. If i like a girl its usually off of personality because i find men more attractive physically. Personality is hella important in both but in girls its usually what i base a 'like' out of. And along with that- ive never had sexual feelings towards females. 
ah the world of questioning yourself- you think you are done and figured out but then life decides to screw with you:)

I dont know if im aro or not. I never really thought so but recently ive been unsure. I like people for their ohysical look and then their personalities. Sometimes just look. I dont know if i would want a relationship. Im perfectly happy with my friendships. I want kids but im not sure jf i want to marry. I have liked people enough to want to date them. I might want to marry one day. I used tk think aro was impossible for me to be but i dont know. So from a confused guy- do you think i could fall in the spectrum?