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how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky
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Well, the cat was kinda forced outta the bag the other day and it's ... not going terribly? Like it's hard and my partner is really hurt and doesn't understand relationship anarchy but wants to work this out. But I know right now he feels really unhappy because he feels like there's something wrong with him and I cant reassure him completely otherwise
I know we'll work through it and Im so much happier now that he knows and I feel free to love him platonically? But it'll be a struggle.
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how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky
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The problem is that Im literally entirely financially dependent on him. Without him I have no home, no income, nothing. And I don't want us to break up, we're just. The entire year we've been together here has been really rough and we're still not in a great place, so I'm really worried about bringing it up.
But I know I have to because ignoring my own boundaries is gonna hurt me and not saying anything until I explode will hurt him but I have no idea how to bring it up when he has AvPD and an intense fear of abandonment.
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I know we'll work through it and Im so much happier now that he knows and I feel free to love him platonically? But it'll be a struggle.