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been a while since i last posted smth in here, hi

4 minutes ago, HelloThere said:

That’s just… very sexist, and generally just isn’t really true. Guys definitely do dumb stuff but I can’t say that girls are quiet.

yeah (i live in a student building for females only and theyre messy af)

sounds like most uni-cities apartment owners act here (but i guess everywhere). basically rent is super-expensive and if the owner accepts students renting, they usually ask for girls only (bc of old/wrong concept of <girls are quiet> and <boys are messy>)

i never heard about this thing of couples though

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im too, i came out with my sister only and thats because i trust her (shes a great friend) and because she came out as lesbian so i felt confident with her. some relatives find lesbians strange enough, let figure aromanticism which is really unheard of here irl. for everyone else im just still single and yet to find a soulmate or smth.

i only show im aro here (i mean its a aro forum) and in one website (aro flag on pfp and two jokes a year) and always under pseudonym.

dont cry too much if your childhood friend forgot you, you protected them and helped them through a lot so its not your fault if they desided to change croud.

dont blame yourself if bullysm is seen as cool between your classmates. you can always find someone else to have friendship with, maybe outside school, just open up more and dont lose hope on people. therere people you know little of that still remember you for little things youve done because you got out from the corner and made a positive impact on them, may it be a drawing or some help on homework or a joke you found embarassing or that comic that was your cry for help that worked.

so stay strong and stubborn, talk and dont let the pressure destroy you, or stress and anxiety are gonna bend you in a really bad way. thats really a part of me that i want back, so dont lose it.

(also for the love of god dont let your parents throw away our beloved comics, i cant find them anymore-)

ps: say always hi and smile to anyone, you never know if it will be the last time you get the chance.

On 5/18/2023 at 9:31 AM, nonmerci said:

Well, I also was born in the internet, my family got it when I was something like 10 or 11. I still didn't find out until I was 23. I think it is not only about internet but also how we talked about it.

same experience. i found out aromanticism was a thing when i was 18-19 yo and i'd been on the internet since i was 10 or smth

i maybe had one aro classmate during high school? but its been a while since i last got in contact with them and i didnt known them very much, so im not sure

hi, just got some free time to come and post some kind of introduction (never been good with these).

aroace, i go by any pronounce (idc). im not really talkative but i like drawing n writing when i get the chance.

hope youre having a nice day, and hi again!

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