You find yourself imagining a romantic relationship with this person, but the thought of actually acting on it causes feelings of uneasiness and discomfort.
Do I have that right?
It’s possible that you may be aegoromantic. Its an identity labeling people who enjoy the idea more than the actual reality of romantic activities.
Nevertheless the fact you feel uncomfortable around romantic moments is definitely something you shouldn’t ignore, and I don’t think ignoring it will make it go away.
But…it’s your feelings, you will have to decide whether these feelings of discomfort are from nervousness towards new horizons or a warning to be heeded.
Before you talk with them about a romantic relationship I would recommend you journal to yourself and reflect on why you feel uncomfortable. Journaling whats on your mind has always helped me.
Yes, you have it right. I will have to look into that, thank you for introducing that term! Thank you for the advice, having a channel to verbalize my feelings will help me figure things out. This is all so new to me and it threw me off guard a bit.
Thank you!
22 hours ago, whatistheromance said:
Maybe have a talk with them about it.
Thank you! I need to spend some time gathering my thoughts and figuring out why I feel this way before I have this conversation. That way, I just might feel prepared.
21 hours ago, ilse said:
This! If you feel uncomfortable with the way things are going in your relationship it is best to talk about those feelings so that way you and your friend can come to an agreement as to where the both of you want to take your relationship next, communication is key 🙆♀️
Thank you so much! I definitely agree, having an open line of communication is important to me. I just need to work on my confidence and figure out how to verbalize my thoughts and feelings.
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Yes, you have it right. I will have to look into that, thank you for introducing that term! Thank you for the advice, having a channel to verbalize my feelings will help me figure things out. This is all so new to me and it threw me off guard a bit.
Thank you!
Thank you! I need to spend some time gathering my thoughts and figuring out why I feel this way before I have this conversation. That way, I just might feel prepared.
Thank you so much! I definitely agree, having an open line of communication is important to me. I just need to work on my confidence and figure out how to verbalize my thoughts and feelings.