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33 minutes ago, Helion said:

Kind of same, though I'm not non-binary or anything. I'm female, but it's just not a part of my personality or anything really, it's just a fact that I don't care much about. If I were to turn into a man in two seconds I would just keep going like nothing ever happened so to speak lmao

I feel like not being girly/manly shouldn't automatically equal being agender necessarily, gender just isn't always important to a person. 

that's a pretty interesting perspective. it correlates to what I say to some extent but I don't know if I can fully relate. I just don't feel associated with any gender so I thought it would be right to use this label

So I'm pretty sure I identify with the agender label, but the circumstances surrounding it for me personally have been pretty strange.

For me, I'm AMAB which is ok, along with the way I act and present physically and appearance wise all is fine. But I don't feel any personal or deeper connection with being male. I would go as far as saying I don't know what gender particularly even feels like. But the stranger part is that I have no desire to change it because I'm already so used to it. So, I only use they in my pronouns but I'm largely unbothered by presenting as my assigned gender anyway because I've been doing it for such a long time.

Does anyone relate to this experience? Is it common? I've scoured the internet hoping to find any similar cases but to no luck. I use the label anyway because it feels right (demiboy in this case still implies a slight feeling of being male, which I do not have). Would love to hear your responses on this.

51 minutes ago, roboticanary said:

cheers for bumping that up, I'll have a look at it

 

think I've worked it out, should be a pure black background now

ive went for plain black what do you think?

why i think that looks much nicer! way easier on the eyes

the search bar still remains a pesky problem but i suppose yall are already aware and working on it, otherwise it's perfect i think

2 hours ago, mivoei said:

idk if anyone even see this but ill recommend this here again lmao

i think this looks really disorienting. having a consistent dark color would be nice

hey all. just wanted to ask this question since it goes around my mind every now and then

for the record, i am a cis dude who is perfectly fine with his gender, no qualms with identifying with it whatsoever. but at the same time i always think that i would be fine with using he/they and being referred as such, or something like that. not that i have any strong urge to act on it or anything though

i know it's said that if it ain't broke, don't fix it but i wanted to know if this is something i may not be alone with. thanks for reading and i apologize if it's disorganized or whatever

yu narukami from persona 4. fairly self explanatory, i love this character

i think a huge indicator on my end was something like planning out what my marriage and similar stuff would be like, but i would really draw a huge blank on who i would have been with. similarly i found out that i didn't really have a type, and what i seemingly had back then was just qualities i wanted in a good friend. i hope that helped!

i'm running a lawful evil samurai warforged and i really wanted to take the opportunity to have him be aroace, but i think it'll probably just blend in due to the fact that he's well, a robot, which is kind of a shame really. will have to do that next time i create a non robotic character though

edit: he's a level 3 character (we're using milestone progression) but the game itself has yet to start. can't wait to play since i had my last campaign over a year ago

1 minute ago, Ashe. said:

I don't even understand what true love is supposed to be. doesn't mae any sense to me.

you and i both. i have no idea what it even means

5 hours ago, Erederyn said:

Hello there! Welcome to the forums, I hope you enjoy lurking around here ?

Also, I like your signature quote "Bonds of people is the true power." 

cheers, big ears. i thought the signature would work perfectly since the game it’s from (persona 4) emphasizes on friendships and the bonds you make with people, and that has been very close to me as i relate a lot to it

funnily enough, my mom really doesn’t care if i’m married or not (and by extension, having children). it’s a huge sigh of relief knowing i have nothing to live up to in that regard

i can agree. when i was first exposed to the term i denied it very heavily, since i thought it couldn’t be possible at all. but eventually it was flat on my face and i couldn’t get around that

my name's chilling, i like food and using the magical world of the internet. i also play video games and lurk forums, what's up? i am also on aven under the same name if i ever seem any familiar