MaikeruSapphire

It's not weird. Plenty of aros like love songs and such.

Side note: Whenever Spotify decides to give me a love song and it's catchy/sounds good, I add it to an ever-growing playlist called "Attraction't". I do that to guarantee that I'll never have my liked songs playlist filled with songs about sex/romance. Am I the only one that has a playlist like that?

I actually haven't had any experiences with romantic harassment as defined in the original post. Maybe it's because I'm not conventionally attractive. Maybe it's because I'm a guy. Who knows? I sure don't!

It doesn't really matter to me a whole lot. I'm fine with hugs and such if there's a reason behind it or if I give permission. Anything more than that is kinda just... eugh. No thanks.

50%: Aroace (correct!)

25%: Demi

17%: Alloromantic asexual

8%: Aromantic

0% (lol): Allo

It's not the worst test out there.

Congratulations!!

INFP, aroace here.

I wish I had deeper friendships. I want deep discussions, not small talk.

I'm not super charismatic, though. It's tough to get friends, period. I suck at socializing. I wish this wasn't the case.

On 7/13/2022 at 4:43 AM, Harvest said:

https://uquiz.com/quiz/cf9MVQ/let-me-take-a-wild-guess-on-what-type-of-aromantic-you-are?ref=sidebar_search_result My results was loveless aro, darn I wanted to be an aro coded villain so bad lol, I even picked the alastor option. Oh well I'm still the affably evil supervillain in my heart 💚

https://uquiz.com/quiz/6IQNW7/what-kind-of-aromantic-representation-are-you noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo i missed aro villain again! I got non-human aro character

https://uquiz.com/quiz/mB0IWY/what-kind-of-aromantic-are-you-based-on-minor-arcana-tarot-suits-wands-cups-s I got swords! "intelligence, logic, ambition, conflict, communication, balance. You are really involved in the fight for your rights. You probably have an aro activism account on social media because you have a strong sense of justice and want to be heard. You hate amatonormativity and want it to stop hurting you and your community."

https://uquiz.com/quiz/Fu6Y2g/which-aromantic-flag-has-your-vibes?ref=sidebar_search_result  I got the lithromantic flag, not lithro but the description checks out and I like the colours, aroallo will always be my fav thought

show me your results

 

I'll answer these in order.

Loveless aro, sounds about right. I am a whole individual.

Lowkey jerk. I'm not even mad or called out, this just brought a smile to my face. I know I'm not a jerk. ...

Pentacles. "Stability, safety, money, nature, prosperity, health, long term, home. You don't know where being aro will lead you, but you own it and make the best of your life anyway. You seek a peaceful future, and I swear to you that you will get it eventually." No idea what this means, but I'm smiling anyway.

Lithromantic. I used to think I was lithromantic. (Found a good aro vibes song through this quiz, but I had to scram because I realized I was listening on my school account, and I'm not sure that's the kind of thing I want while I'm in school, heh. Would have kept going had I been on my personal account.)

3 hours ago, Aye said:

wow guys turns out i might be aro 

One of us! One of us! One of us!

I've been playing quite a lot of Espionage: Mafia Evolved and Bloons Monkey City, and some Minecraft.

In my library I've also got Town of Salem (Coven DLC), Untrusted, Mindnight, and...yeah. That's it. I play a lot of obscure social deduction games from Steam.

Whenever I tell people (not necessarily IRL, but usually that's the case) about not wanting to date anyone, the most common response is something along the lines of "oh, you will soon, just give it some time". It's gotten to the point where someone who's younger than I am said that.

Is it supposed to be convincing? Consoling? If that's the case, it's not working. Usually all the person can say to back it up is that they felt that way a long time ago. I don't believe it'll happen to me.

I could live my entire life sincerely believing that I'll eventually get a crush on someone, I'm just the latest bloomer on Earth. Waiting for something that will, in all likelihood, never happen seems like a waste of time to me.

Does anyone else have any possible responses to someone who says something like that?

Aromanticism for sure. Up until last month I thought I was heterosexual aromantic, because I have a high libido and women are aesthetically pleasing. I'm not really sex-repulsed either. I just wouldn't want to have sex outside of a married partner for religious reasons, and since I don't want to get married, sex is kinda out of the question for me.

What sealed the deal for me was looking at the results when I searched what sexual attraction feels like. Then everything made a lot more sense.

Two words: T-Rex poster. I still have it up to this day.

Not needing to spend any time dealing with crushes or anything like that. I'm a complete person on my own. That's my biggest aro joy.

I went to a school dance without a date once (wasn't a big deal, a lot of people went solo or with friends). It was pretty fun, but also super exhausting. I don't think I'd go again if I didn't get in for free :P Keeping in mind, though, it wasn't homecoming, so that might be different.

It's better to decline and be happy than to accept and be miserable. Something along the lines of "No thanks, I don't want to go to homecoming this year" is a good start.

YMBAI the things you want in a platonic friendship and the things you'd want in a romantic relationship are the same things

You no longer feel any joint pain, but it's because you no longer have any joints. All of your limbs are frozen in place and you can't move them.

I wish unhealthy food wasn't as common as it is.

Maikeru is my first name translated to Japanese, sapphire is my birthstone.

Sometimes I shorten it to "maisap", which is the first 3 letters of each (converted to lowercase because it looks cooler).

You're not too awkward to ask your teacher for a reference, but you pass out as soon as you ask for the reference.

I wish the stickers on my water bottle didn't fade.

On 3/15/2022 at 6:29 AM, Cavaajia said:

Also why do we show more loyalty to romantic partners who we've known for way less time than friends? Perhaps I'm a cynic (no I am one!) but I look at marriages of family members and I'm like it's crazy you don't seem happy... ...my mum and dad have so many differences and there are complaints (but to be fair I haven't helped sometimes I stick my nose in where it's not my business), my aunt is getting divorced and I feel like deep down people hate each other?

I feel the exact same way. It's sad that the entire point of marriage is that the couple will spend the rest of their lives together, but almost half of marriages end in divorce.

I remember first seeing this game on Steam and being sad that I'd have to wait until February 2022 to see a demo. Then I completely forgot about it.

I'm definitely going to download this game tomorrow, as long as I don't forget again.

1: Meal: Today I'd say macaroni and cheese, maybe chicken alfredo. Back then I'd say chicken nuggets or something
2: Snack/desert/junk food: Specifically, Culver's Crazy for Cookie Dough flavored fresh frozen custard. I'd say that back then too. It's been a favorite for a long time for me. 
3: Movie: Megamind, I guess (side note: I really want to see Schindler's List, but I haven't yet so I can't say it's my favorite movie). For the past, I'll say Toy Story.
4: TV show: Mind Field. I know it's not aired on television, but I honestly do not watch TV anymore. Back then, my favorite show was Cyberchase. PBS Kids was amazing when I was a child.
5: Book/Series: I don't read that much, never have. I'll say my favorite book now is Think Java: How to Think like a Computer Scientist and my favorite back then is I Funny by James Patterson.
6: Music/Song: I have multiple answers for this question. One of my favorites nowadays is The Science of Selling Yourself Short by Less Than Jake. I honestly can't think of any songs that I liked when I was young.
7: Animal: Now: Axolotl, Then: Penguin.
8: Game: Now: Untrusted- Web of Cybercrime, Then: Minecraft.
9: Hobby: Now: Audio engineering, Then: Probably playing in the snow, or something.
10: Idea for a strange law that you'd like to pass. Now: Getting rid of the "By using this website, you agree to any and all cookies" nonsense on the internet. Then: Banning homework, I guess? That's probably something every kid wanted at one point in their lives

False. I manage football, though.

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On 10/1/2021 at 7:29 PM, LifezVictory said:

Isn’t that what a romantic relationship is, though? When people decide to call it that and do the things associated? That’s my understanding of it, anyway.

We called it a romantic relationship, but it really wasn't that. We didn't do any of the things associated with a romantic relationship.

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