flyingfish

All identities are fluid. Things can change for you! However, you can still identify however and it doesn't mean you weren't that identity at some point. It shouldn't be used as an excuse to invalidate you, however. If you identify as aro/ace then you are aro/ace.

Additionally, if you feel it changes more quickly, there are terms for that :) I am aroflux, so I experience romantic attraction differently different days.

I remember that whenever I developed interest in someone, I never was focused on doing romantic things so much as having a deep emotional connection and someone to talk to