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I've tried to "come out" to my mum (more as in like i told her that I don't think I am capable of romantic attraction) but that didn't go very well. She just asked me if i was gay lol. 

For me feeling romantic attraction is the capability of falling in love with someone. As and aromantic person I am fully capable of loving someone, but I will never be able to fall IN love with someone. That's the way I see it and that's what kind of helped me realise im aro. I also define a romantic relationship as two people who are  IN love with eachother.

Hahaha I came here to comment what it is in swedish but... yeah.

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2 hours ago, Pufflehugs04 said:

I feel for you there - i don't really understand why A must happen before B. Friends who just happen to be in a sexual but non-romantic relationship can raise a kid just as well as romantic partners. Imagine if this idiocy was abolished - so many more happy people in the world! If two aro people want a kid, then why not? The world won't end if the parents don't sign the Ferengi Marriage Contract. There's no need for the stigma at all. None. Never.

I don't want a child at all but it's so annoying to me that you're expected to be in a romantic relationship before having sex with someone. I want my first time to be with someone who cares about me but I don't know how that is supposed to happen. 

I've never been in a serious romantic relationship, and now I've realised that I don't even want one. The only thing that bothers me about that is the fact that I'm allosexual and I don't know how I'm going to get to have sex for the first time if I'm not in a relationship.

I find learning about other countries cultures really interesting, so I thought it would be fun if everyone could tell eachother what countries we're from and then write a little bit about the country!

I'm from Sweden(often mixed up with switzerland) which is located in the north of europe. A stereotypical swede is attractive and blonde with blue eyes, but that's bullshit hahaha. 

 We are most famous for IKEA and a lot of famous musicians come from sweden (Abba, Zara Larsson,Tove lo, Icona pop etc).

So what is it like to live in Sweden? We have seasons and our temperatures can go between like -35 degrees celcius in the winter and +30 in the summer depending on where you live.

Sweden is considered one of the most equal countries in the world and because of that many people think that it's perfect and that no more work needs to be done for equality, but that is so wrong. I don't think we're very equal at all so I can only imagine what it must be like in other countries.

That was a bit about Sweden, but feel free to ask something else if there are any questions. Now, tell me about your countries!

I've been playing the guitar for about 4 years:)

Okay so I have a suggestion to make it possible to see how many people are online when you log in. I just think it's nice to know if anyone else is on at the same time as you are.

EDIT: Okay nvm I just realised you could already see that.