A while ago I started questioning my gender. The thing is, I've been really struggling to tell what gender is supposed to feel like. I don't feel dysphoria when I'm being referred to as my AGAB, but it doesn't really feel good, either? I feel this same sense of apathy towards all gender expressions, honestly. I wouldn't care if I woke up in the body of the "opposite" gender, although I think it would be nice to wake up in a gender neutral body.
Recently when people have been referring to me as a girl or a woman (I'm AFAB for context), it doesn't necessarily feel uncomfortable but I have this weird knee jerk reaction? I don't mind it but also it just feels a little bit strange.
Everyone I've asked (which is, admittedly, very few people) seems to consider their gender in opposition to whichever one they're not, but I still don't know what this is supposed to mean.
I have no idea what this means in terms of gender, and I'm not sure if I'm just cis and confused but I would really appreciate any answers.
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A while ago I started questioning my gender. The thing is, I've been really struggling to tell what gender is supposed to feel like. I don't feel dysphoria when I'm being referred to as my AGAB, but it doesn't really feel good, either? I feel this same sense of apathy towards all gender expressions, honestly. I wouldn't care if I woke up in the body of the "opposite" gender, although I think it would be nice to wake up in a gender neutral body.
Recently when people have been referring to me as a girl or a woman (I'm AFAB for context), it doesn't necessarily feel uncomfortable but I have this weird knee jerk reaction? I don't mind it but also it just feels a little bit strange.
Everyone I've asked (which is, admittedly, very few people) seems to consider their gender in opposition to whichever one they're not, but I still don't know what this is supposed to mean.
I have no idea what this means in terms of gender, and I'm not sure if I'm just cis and confused but I would really appreciate any answers.
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