Friend gave his girlfriend access to his socials (and our DM's)

[Cortacfrog]

I try not to make a big deal out of this cause I know she is important to him... maybe it's not a big deal after all but I dunno, that just feels wrong for me. We used to discuss some personal stuff and vent to each other a lot, I shared some things that I openly said I only share with him and nobody else, not even my parents. I thought these were secret with him, but now that I think this random girl I hardly know might have access to all of this, I dunno, it just makes me feel like I can't really trust the guy anymore.

Not only that, even when I'm just looking to play games or hang out, I am not sure anymore who am I talking to. when I'm dm'ing him, I had a couple of situations where he started to act differently or weirdly and confusing me. Then it turns out his girlfriend was the one responding to my dm's, and they both thought it was very funny.

I dunno, I feel childish being angry over this sometimes for feeling this way. I try to support him no matter what despite all this because well he is my friend and I care about him and I want him to be happy. But sometimes, man I just really wish things were back to what they once were, so we could be as close as before...

[Neon]

Nah, that’s weird on his part. I think it’s okay to share a few messages with someone who doesn’t know the other person if they are innocuous or make you concerned (so you need an outside perspective). But not to share everything without you agreeing to it. And certainly not impersonating him (unless they immediately clued you in).