Ik im 100% aromantic, i don't experience romantic attraction. At most i feel a strong emotional connection that turns to obsession and possessiveness, I don't in any way get butterflies or those lovely dove feeling's, I just get the strong desire towards someone wanting to control/possess them. Ik my feelings are not in any way romantic, I've tried to ignore them but now I'm just able to keep the feelings and thoughts to myself. I have a boyfriend and it rots me inside knowing how dirty my thoughts and desires are, we’re in a romantic relationship and Ik he loves me but I just feel horrible that my feelings won’t ever be similar to his, mine just feel dirty. My concept of romantic actions also frequently change. I'll be fine with kissing or even just normal stuff that shows affection then the next second I hate it. This changes randomly. It would be weeks apart or the same day, as well as months, I've been trying to find labels to help center me, but no luck. Ik I'm toxic. But I've never once let my feelings or thoughts define my relationships.
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Ik im 100% aromantic, i don't experience romantic attraction. At most i feel a strong emotional connection that turns to obsession and possessiveness, I don't in any way get butterflies or those lovely dove feeling's, I just get the strong desire towards someone wanting to control/possess them. Ik my feelings are not in any way romantic, I've tried to ignore them but now I'm just able to keep the feelings and thoughts to myself. I have a boyfriend and it rots me inside knowing how dirty my thoughts and desires are, we’re in a romantic relationship and Ik he loves me but I just feel horrible that my feelings won’t ever be similar to his, mine just feel dirty. My concept of romantic actions also frequently change. I'll be fine with kissing or even just normal stuff that shows affection then the next second I hate it. This changes randomly. It would be weeks apart or the same day, as well as months, I've been trying to find labels to help center me, but no luck. Ik I'm toxic. But I've never once let my feelings or thoughts define my relationships.
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