What happens when my friend starts dating?

[dordor]

Hello nice people of aromantic spectrum on the internet.

So i have two friends in university, and only teo friends i mean it. We are in the second year of uni and now is the time for people to start dating, which as u can guess feels like shit for me. 

One my friends has started dating someone, a very nice and funny fellow who i like very much, over the summer. And already the three of us barely get any time to spend with each other.

But this other friend of mine, she is sort of my warm spot in the winter, this one point of consistency in the chaos of my mind, someone i can lean one, that one person who can take away all my loneliness. (God i can never tell her any of that, i will sound like a fucking perv)

Last week she saw this guy, and liked him instantly. Now they are chatting and flirting online. It was actually me who found his acc and all other sort lf info about him😂 i have really good connections. And i am really happy for her and they match perfectly. 

But what will happen when they actually start dating? Will the two couples prefer to be with each other than having that wierd girl who doesn't even know how thier feeling feel like? 

Will i lose her? What he won't like me and ask her to stop being friends with me? What if she would rather spend her time with him? 

I will do anything to make her happy, but how far will she go to make me happy? 

 

[ghost_bean]

11 hours ago, dordor said:

But what will happen when they actually start dating? Will the two couples prefer to be with each other than having that wierd girl who doesn't even know how thier feeling feel like? 

i honestly don't know, but if she full on ditches you, then she's not worth ur time

I recommend trusting ur friend and maybe talking to her abt this and how u feel. let ur friend know that ur worried abt her not spending as much time with u if they get together. i hope this helps!

[dordor]

12 hours ago, ghost_bean said:

i honestly don't know, but if she full on ditches you, then she's not worth ur time

I recommend trusting ur friend and maybe talking to her abt this and how u feel. let ur friend know that ur worried abt her not spending as much time with u if they get together. i hope this helps!

She know my former friend has hurt me bc of the same reason, i know she won't do it on purpose. And i know she won't ditch me. I am just scared, and my mind always fears the worst