sevan Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 just found out about this site from aven and i shouldve known of it earlier. with that out of the way my name is sevan and you can call me sev in short im an aroace on the omniaspec and a masc nonbinary [specifically solarian] i prefer masc and neutral terms and i use he/him pronouns but they/its are totally chill too i enjoy listening to music digital art and watching animated shows [animes cartoons movies etc] as well! here are the shows i like and would like to talk about if you want to befriend me by any chance. for a more detailed introduction and pathway to my social media visit my about me and website in my profile sevan out 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pyr Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 Hey Sevan! Welcome to arocalypse! I'm into digital art too! I draw goofy cats n stuff ahah 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 6 minutes ago, Pyr said: Hey Sevan! Welcome to arocalypse! I'm into digital art too! I draw goofy cats n stuff ahah thanks pal! i dont really draw cats but i do like to look at artworks of black cats being black holes theyre so silly fr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deltalorian Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 Hello Sevan! Would you like a welcome frogge? I'll give you a weclome frogge regardless. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 1 minute ago, Deltalorian said: Hello Sevan! Would you like a welcome frogge? I'll give you a weclome frogge regardless. dont mind if i do lmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovebird Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 Oh, a solarian! That's so cool, I'm a lunarian myself! Nice to see other people use the Galatian alignment system 😊 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 3 minutes ago, Lovebird said: Oh, a solarian! That's so cool, I'm a lunarian myself! Nice to see other people use the Galatian alignment system 😊 the galatian alignment system is so cool im glad it exists for real. imagine how cool it would be to tell someone youre a [solarian/lunarian/etc] when they asked what your gender is!1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovebird Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 2 hours ago, sevan said: the galatian alignment system is so cool im glad it exists for real. imagine how cool it would be to tell someone youre a [solarian/lunarian/etc] when they asked what your gender is!1 If anyone asked me that I'd be the happiest person alive, I wouldn't care if they knew about, i'd happily go off for hours over what it is. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 6 minutes ago, Lovebird said: If anyone asked me that I'd be the happiest person alive, I wouldn't care if they knew about, i'd happily go off for hours over what it is. wait no for real because that means theyre an ally and youre queerness be safe with them holy shit i have had peers asking me what my pronouns are so they dont misgender me and its the sweetest shit i couldve ever asked for 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovebird Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 5 minutes ago, sevan said: wait no for real because that means theyre an ally and youre queerness be safe with them holy shit i have had peers asking me what my pronouns are so they dont misgender me and its the sweetest shit i couldve ever asked for Same! it's very sweet, and makes me feel super safe <3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 8 minutes ago, Lovebird said: Same! it's very sweet, and makes me feel super safe <3 the allies we all want but super rare but some reason 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovebird Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 (edited) 22 minutes ago, sevan said: the allies we all want but super rare but some reason Agreed. Funnily enough when I first thought my bf was an ally, I was scared of coming out to him, then he came out as multiple things, including arospec and I felt a lot safer. Edited September 13 by Lovebird 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 14 minutes ago, Lovebird said: Agreed. Funnily enough when I first thought my bf was an ally, I was scared of coming out to him, then he came out as multiple things, including arospec and I felt a lot safer. i can understand why sort of. a few bad apples in the ally community really twisted my perception of them and trying to come out to one emits so much tension you have in horror movies although allies support us they still arent queer themselves which limits their understanding of certain lgbtq concepts. depending on where the community drift toward the allies will also develop biases acting as though they understand the full picture obviously not all of them has that sort of attitude but invalidation from a fellow ally is quite common due to their lack of understanding and subjective biases 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovebird Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 13 minutes ago, sevan said: i can understand why sort of. a few bad apples in the ally community really twisted my perception of them and trying to come out to one emits so much tension you have in horror movies although allies support us they still arent queer themselves which limits their understanding of certain lgbtq concepts. depending on where the community drift toward the allies will also develop biases acting as though they understand the full picture obviously not all of them has that sort of attitude but invalidation from a fellow ally is quite common due to their lack of understanding and subjective biases Yeah, I've been invalidated by "so called allies" before online and it was not fun nor pretty. I'd rather them not understand an identity and ask me if I'm able than randomly guess and having a bigoted bias 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 13 Author Share Posted September 13 2 minutes ago, Lovebird said: Yeah, I've been invalidated by "so called allies" before online and it was not fun nor pretty. I'd rather them not understand an identity and ask me if I'm able than randomly guess and having a bigoted bias most people would either be scared of or hate the things they just cant understand. but really staying neutral and curious about the incomprehensible doesnt hurt i have to say this louder to the quote unquote allies at the back 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovebird Posted September 13 Share Posted September 13 26 minutes ago, sevan said: most people would either be scared of or hate the things they just cant understand. but really staying neutral and curious about the incomprehensible doesnt hurt i have to say this louder to the quote unquote allies at the back I use quotes like a madman, tbh. I too am curious about the incomprehensible, it's how I learned I was Lunarian in the first place 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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