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alterous or romantic?


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so i've had a few people in the past i'm not sure if i had a crush on or not because i'm confused if alterous/tertiary/(attractions other than romantic/sexual) attraction does the same thing to people romantic/sexual attraction is supposed to, or if it's a lot weaker.

for example, if you think a woman is gorgeous, would it be normal to feel nervous around her/think about her a lot or would that be a telltale sign that you're romantically attracted to her? or if you're aesthetically attracted to someone is it that simple as thinking they look nice and moving on with your day?

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When I am aesthetically attracted to someone I see at the street I might think about them a few times that day, but it doesn't go further. It is similar to going to a museum and seeing an art piece you love. You might remember the art piece and the feeling it produced to you, but nothing more. I've never felt nervous towards someone I felt aesthetically attracted for, only around squishes, so...

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