Atypique Posted September 19 Share Posted September 19 In a show : B : why are you smiling ? A (depressive but in love) : nothing... Life is cool. Me (watching the show): love really can create strange things. my father : that's what it's like. You'll feel that onee day Me : ........... my father : Well I hope for you that you will me : ......... I don't want to. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevan Posted September 20 Share Posted September 20 9 hours ago, Atypique said: Wait is that an actual conv you got with someone ?? How can someone confess like that ??? yes. my homie was just really nervous and confused so its not a big deal but we got off well. were still bestfriends 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milenea Posted September 22 Share Posted September 22 (edited) On 7/25/2022 at 9:05 PM, DeltaAro said: It's the fear that this is going to be permanent. He hopes that frankness and laughter will break through (totally assumed) "self-denial". Of course this is completely inappropriate and counterproductive to say to an aro (and also to an alloromantic person who struggles to find a partner). yeah you might be right about that. I've never been in a relationship and also never dated anyone seriously, I think he really is scared that I'll never find someone haha. Or maybe he just can't imagine how people can permanently be happy without beeing in a relationship... Edited September 22 by Milenea 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 (edited) Not understanding why my friends..date I guess it seems cool but meh not for me And feeling (pretty much every other type of) attraction, but thinking it's romantic attraction when in reality it's probably not Edited October 1 by alien 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atypique Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 Spending time with a friend. Being shipped by another friend who is supposed to know you're aromantic. There are actually plenty of cishet people that just immediately ignore the fact you're aromantic even if you've explained it to them months ago ?? That's freaking tiring. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted Sunday at 11:01 AM Share Posted Sunday at 11:01 AM OoOh just remembered an aro moment!! I used to forget that having a crush is wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone specific I would find my 'crushes' aesthetically attractive, just thinking that they are cute/ cool etc I would just watch from a safe distance admiring them So one day I kinda overheard some people talking about their crushes and they were talking about how their crushes aren't reciprocated and how they wanted to be in a romantic relationship with them And my brain just stopped for a full 5 seconds trying to process that 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Gray Warlock Posted Sunday at 05:20 PM Share Posted Sunday at 05:20 PM To this day people think Every Breath You Take is a love song. They play it at weddings for Christ sake! It isn't. It's a song about obsessiveness. “I think it’s a nasty little song, really rather evil. It’s about jealousy and surveillance and ownership,” Sting, 1983 I guess that tells you what love is all about? 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AromanticAardvark Posted Sunday at 07:53 PM Share Posted Sunday at 07:53 PM Having your whole friend group made up of like 60% aces, and yet being the only aro Odd how things like that work out lol 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atypique Posted Sunday at 08:04 PM Share Posted Sunday at 08:04 PM 8 minutes ago, AromanticAardvark said: Having your whole friend group made up of like 60% aces, and yet being the only aro Odd how things like that work out lol Oooh yeah, I know a lot of aces but no actual aro in my relatives, that's true and kinda sad... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aye Posted Sunday at 09:18 PM Share Posted Sunday at 09:18 PM 1 hour ago, AromanticAardvark said: Having your whole friend group made up of like 60% aces, and yet being the only aro Odd how things like that work out lol i know one ace and one aroace nice that you have many ace friends though my mother gave me a rundown of her love life recently when i hinted at my 'not feeling romantic love' stuff. it was horrible 0/10 would not recommend 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atypique Posted Monday at 05:35 AM Share Posted Monday at 05:35 AM Oh yes the "I'm really happy to be in love and that love exists so you should be happy too and you should want to fall in love and you will fall in love you have no choice" 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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