Venuxxx Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 Hiii guys, u can call me of venuxxxx (a nickname), I'm 16 and I from Brazil. Lately I've been thinking about myself, cuz I always felt different about relationships. Sooo I think I can be a aro. Well, I never saw the romantic and even sexual relationship I think (I still have doubts about it) as an important thing, in fact I think it is something that I would live without these things. I feel very uncomfortable with other people's touch, I don't like to hug or kiss them. I never understood the "obsession" that people had for each other, I never felt that. I even pretended that I liked someone to fit me in or to try to feel what people felt. My mom told me that I could tell her about the people I liked, but it never happened because I never felt any kind of attraction to other people, in fact the only attraction I feel for people is physical (?) Like, I see people on the street and I can think they're pretty, but I don't feel like touching them, or kissing them, or anything like that. well, I could write a bible here about everything I feel, because I've been thinking about it a lot and now that I've discovered other people like me, everything has become very clear to me. I finally felt part of something, now I feel comfortable saying that I am aro. If anyone has any questions about whether or not aro, you can ask me how my discovery went, maybe I can help. Well, sorry for the big text and the English too (I used the Google translator hahaha) and thanks so much for reading this far :) 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erederyn Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 Bem vindo! It can be quite a journey discovering one's identity, I'm glad you have managed to find clarity! I hope you can find some connections and feel at home here with other aros ? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nagito Posted November 27, 2020 Share Posted November 27, 2020 Oi! 1 hour ago, Venuxxx said: I always felt different about relationships. Sooo I think I can be a aro. It’s possible! 1 hour ago, Venuxxx said: I feel very uncomfortable with other people's touch, I don't like to hug or kiss them. Yeah, a part of aro persons are touch- and romance-aversed. 1 hour ago, Venuxxx said: I used the Google translator hahaha I’m learning Br-Portuguese since 2018 and I know the feeling of using Google Translator, especially while writting a story in this language or reading something, kkkkk. Now I’m having problems with code-switching because my brain ’turns-off’ sometimes (I’m native Polish speaker, English is my second language and Portuguese is third but currently I’m using more Portuguese than English, tbh) and then I’m mixing languages in one sentence. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sol Posted November 28, 2020 Share Posted November 28, 2020 oi, eu também sou do Brasil!! se quiser conversar sobre arromanticidade com alguém que fala português, pode me chamar na mensagem privada qualquer hora! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venuxxx Posted November 28, 2020 Author Share Posted November 28, 2020 23 hours ago, Rony said: Oi! É possível! Sim, uma parte das pessoas aro são aversas ao toque e ao romance. Estou aprendendo português-inglês desde 2018 e conheço a sensação de usar o Google Translator, principalmente enquanto escrevo uma história nessa língua ou leio algo, kkkkk. Agora estou tendo problemas com a troca de código porque meu cérebro 'desliga' às vezes (sou falante nativo de polonês, inglês é meu segundo idioma e português é o terceiro, mas atualmente estou usando mais português do que inglês, tbh) e então estou misturando idiomas em uma frase Wow niceeee to meet you Rony, good luck in your learning and if you have any questions about portuguese, maybe i can help you :) On 27/11/2020 at 15:03, Erederyn said: Bem vindo! Pode ser uma jornada e tanto descobrir a própria identidade, fico feliz que você tenha conseguido encontrar clareza! Espero que você possa encontrar algumas conexões e se sentir em casa aqui com outros aros ? Thank u ♡ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queasy_Attention Posted November 28, 2020 Share Posted November 28, 2020 Welcome! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nagito Posted November 29, 2020 Share Posted November 29, 2020 13 hours ago, Venuxxx said: Wow niceeee to meet you Rony, good luck in your learning and if you have any questions about portuguese, maybe i can help you Obrigade. Tô aberte para fazer amizades então não vejo problema qualquer para conversar um pouco, se você quiser. É importante para se lembrar que usando coisas como Google Tradutor não é vergonhoso. É algo que muitas pessoas fazem mas não todos tem coragem para revelar. Eu pessoalmente tô usando-o durante escrevendo uma história se tenho dúvidas. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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