LaReine Posted November 8, 2020 Share Posted November 8, 2020 I mean, I don't even understand relationships and even less the concept of romance at all. But anyone else feeling lonely on a platonic level? I don't have much friends and I never feel like I can talk to the few I have. Moreover, I'm shit at making new friends and especially forming lasting friendships (mostly because I'm a social and emotional disaster who tends to push people away as soon as I get emotionally attached to them). 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
roboticanary Posted November 8, 2020 Share Posted November 8, 2020 I relate to the experience of pushing people away and I definitely relate to having very few friends. Certainly 2020 has hit me with a feeling of loneliness from the few friends I have, but usually I get through alright. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
D0NN13_D1N0 Posted November 8, 2020 Share Posted November 8, 2020 Absolutely, i'm incredibly grateful for my friends but i'm so bad at maintaining friendships and we're all finishing school next year:(( Just kinda sucks bc I have difficulty approaching people I want to talk to and will probably lose my existing friends rip 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LazyPilgrim Posted December 28, 2020 Share Posted December 28, 2020 Yeah, that's me. Never had any friendships past the casual level. Got used to being alone - mostly. Companionship and emotional support would be nice, but I don't know how to offer those myself, so how can I ask others to? 1 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DivineCyst Posted February 13 Share Posted February 13 Same. Just same. I have my lasting friends but that's it. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Spark_TheDemiboyRat Posted February 13 Share Posted February 13 I'm almost always lonely. I'm not really sure why, but it even happens when I'm with other people. It's kinda weird... 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DivineCyst Posted February 13 Share Posted February 13 11 minutes ago, Confused Artist said: I'm almost always lonely. I'm not really sure why, but it even happens when I'm with other people. It's kinda weird... Same and I zone out but then I remember: these people care and if they don't then they should leave. I refocus on the present and be present. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Apathetic Echidna Posted February 14 Share Posted February 14 I've been good at contacting friends recently, but in catching up I compare my life to theirs and I feel shame because I think I haven't achieved anything worthwhile. Which is some sort of internal desolate wasteland.....which make me feel lonelier when I'm with my friends.... So, completely not what you asked! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DogObsessedLianne Posted February 14 Share Posted February 14 Yep, especially as friends often prioritise their romantic relationship above everything else. Bring back school "best mates" I say! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sam Spade Posted February 14 Share Posted February 14 Yes, I only had a few friends, and they moved away. I'm always the one who reaches out which makes me wonder if anyone actually likes hanging out with me... 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ScarfOfSexualPreference Posted February 15 Share Posted February 15 I just really want a good hug but I'm not close enough with anyone I know to be super close to them that way... Plus, like a lot of other people on this thread, I'm so awful at being vulnerable so I just end up being the mom or therapist friend and can't return that kind of friendship. kinda sucks. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blake Posted February 19 Share Posted February 19 (edited) Yep. Besides the pandemic not letting me hug any human, all my friends are now getting jobs and continuing studying and are separated. We hang out once per week via internet to catch up but I really miss them and would love to get a group hug to not feel alone. Since I am the only one not in a relationship, I fear they may slowly drift apart and cut me up, maybe is my anxiety and depression but that feeling is there 24/7 now. Edited February 19 by Blake Mispelled a word or two 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rolo Posted February 19 Share Posted February 19 Yes, I haven't seen most of my friends in person since last February. Video chats just aren't the same. The couple I have occasionally seen it has been for 2m distanced walks, which isn't exactly companionable. I miss them, and I'm feeling lonely. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DivineCyst Posted Tuesday at 01:17 AM Share Posted Tuesday at 01:17 AM On 2/14/2021 at 3:48 PM, Sam Spade said: Yes, I only had a few friends, and they moved away. I'm always the one who reaches out which makes me wonder if anyone actually likes hanging out with me... Omg same! I mean, not with all of my friends, not all the time but, when it does happen that they reach out first, usually they need information or just want to make sure I'm ok haha 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DaviM703 Posted Tuesday at 01:31 AM Share Posted Tuesday at 01:31 AM I feel that way a lot. I have one very good best friend but don't see her as much as before the pandemic and am alone a lot more of the time. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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