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How many crushes do people usually get anyways?

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So idk my "label" yet.. or i think i could know but who knows it takes a while figuring out things sometimes. I get around 2ish crushes a year but have had more in past. Not had one for about two months and ya.. I like the idea of love but it's hard and I worry when or if i get with someone when they die how sad I would get. And worry if they leave me, I always worried about that even before.  😾

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1 hour ago, Rinkagaminex said:

I worry when or if i get with someone when they die how sad I would get. And worry if they leave me, I always worried about that even before.  😾

That's a very common fear even in the aro community so I totally understand what you mean

1 hour ago, Rinkagaminex said:

So idk my "label" yet.. or i think i could know but who knows it takes a while figuring out things sometimes. I get around 2ish crushes a year but have had more in past. Not had one for about two months and ya.. 

People who experience romantic attraction would probably be better at answering what's the "normal" amount of crushes to have in a period of time. However, based on your description I would say it's fairly normal. Unless of course, your experiences with crushes are unusual. For example, your romantic attraction fades when your crush shows interest in you.Then you'd be lithromantic. Or perhaps Frayromantic, a similar orientation, where you experience attraction that fades upon getting to know the individual. There are other romantic orientations worth looking into and they all fall within the aromantic spectrum. There's a page on arocalypse that lists all the known romantic orientations:

https://www.arocalypse.com/topic/1135-comprehensive-list-of-romantic-orientations/

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2 hours ago, Emerald Cheetah said:

That's a very common fear even in the aro community so I totally understand what you mean

People who experience romantic attraction would probably be better at answering what's the "normal" amount of crushes to have in a period of time. However, based on your description I would say it's fairly normal. Unless of course, your experiences with crushes are unusual. For example, your romantic attraction fades when your crush shows interest in you.Then you'd be lithromantic. Or perhaps Frayromantic, a similar orientation, where you experience attraction that fades upon getting to know the individual. There are other romantic orientations worth looking into and they all fall within the aromantic spectrum. There's a page on arocalypse that lists all the known romantic orientations:

https://www.arocalypse.com/topic/1135-comprehensive-list-of-romantic-orientations/

Thank u i think i figured it out 😸

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