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What’s your ideal “date” with your non-romantic partner?

 

Mine is cuddling on the couch watching Monty Python movies and discussing life

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I accurately have 2 ideal dates, one more date-like and one that would happen more then once/isn't "special".

My first ideal date is to get dinner at my favourite pasta place (I never get to go) and getting a Slurpee on the way back. I don't care if I'd have to pay for any amount of it I just want to go w/ someone I care about. It would be nice if they payed at it was "free food", but that almost seems a little cruel in my mind + too "date-like".

My second ideal date is hanging out playing console games w/ them and being able to like rest my head on them + be physically close, but this one is unlikely as I'm too touch-adverse to cuddle like that.

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My partner and I have been together for 5 years so we're sort of past the point of dates, but I guess if I had to pick an ideal date going to a history museum is always a good time 

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My ideal "date" would be to go hiking a weekend with camping and everything and then when we back home, some netflix to chill. 

My realistic "date" would be to go for key lime pie and coffee ice cream as topping while watching netflix ^^ in home. Cuddles are allowed, food sharing is a big no. I would buy two whole separate key lime pies and a 2 pints of coffee ice cream cuz food sharing is not in me. :3

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I do not date and have no interest in dating.  Ideally social activity would center around a common interest or hobby, with or without others present.

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Just staying inside cuddling under blankets :)

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My qpp and I both like board-games, and there's this board-game cafe downtown that I'm thinking of taking her to, so I guess that would be an ideal date?

Idk I think in general my ideal date would be spending time with someone in fun settings (roller-skating, games, chilling at home, looking through a bookstore) rather than super intimate settings (I find stuff like candle-lit dinners to be repulsive). It also depends on the person. For instance, there's places I want to go with my current qpp that I did not want to go with my last squish, and there's places I don't want to go with my qpp that I wanted to with my last squish. It's just whatever I'm comfortable with.

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I've been with my primary QPP for  around two years now. My ideal date with her is spending an entire day together. In this kind of weather, we could start by spending time outside in one of our favourite spots, having a picnic and doing crafts together. Then go home, snuggle up together, read to each other or listen to a podcast we both enjoy.

I also have other non-romantic partners, who enjoy different activities - one of them really likes walking so that would be my ideal date with them, as that's the activity we primarily bond through.

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On 4/8/2020 at 10:54 PM, Kadence said:

What’s your ideal “date” with your non-romantic partner?

 

Mine is cuddling on the couch watching Monty Python movies and discussing life

Mess around, play videogames, eat junk food, hugging all day and kiss each other on the forehead. 

Luckily my friends are awesome and we do this a lot ❤️

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Just laying around. Might be mutually playing video games or saying something now and then.

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